That answer was in the wrong box.
As far as Szasz is concerned, he may have an astute analysis of Psychiatry, but that doesnāt mean he was a good therapist. These statements about therapy strike me as utter nonsense. My experience is quite the opposite. I cannot ignore the incredible value that therapy has brought to my patients. I would suggest keep an open mind and find out for yourself. Iād be cautious about being influenced by experts, including Szasz. Keep the good and throw out the rest. Think for yourself. Szasz was an intellectual. Therapy operates primarily through feeling. It is not an intellectual art or practice. I have devoted my life to my craft and being the best I can be. I only starting writing very late in my career. It was not central to my work. If there is one thing I truly know about it is therapy.
Your ongoing well being is the only thing that matters. To be able to have “diet, exercise and gentle friends are the only ways to control the ongoing damage/residual effect of these dangerous drugs” is so very important. I would say that real therapy should be the opposite of Stockholm Syndrome, and I’m sorry that your’s created more trauma.
I am certainly not eliminating biology. I am suggesting that the emotional pain the flows from the play of consciousness is in itself a form of biology. This is spelled out in great depth in my book. The way we respond to social aspects is incorporated the in play itself.
Of course eating well, sleeping well, and exercise is good for everyone’s well being. I certainly am opposed to putting people on mind-altering drugs. recovering from SSRI’s, anemia and low thyroid certainly make one feel intense fatigue and depressed. Those are not emotional causes for depression.
I agree. A slow well monitored taper is the best way to detox from most of these drugs. And it doesn’t always work. Sometimes the residual effect can last for a very long time and some of the damage may not be fully reversible.
I totally agree on both counts. I do not believe there is any brain disease called ADHD. In addition, certain children with active temperaments need more recess time. They may need more boundaries, and different structures in class rooms. In concert with trauma, they may spin out of control. Kids come in all shapes and sizes.
I agree. Of course, psychiatric symptoms generated by drugs do not lend themselves to psychotherapy. This is specifically what I’m fighting against. These drugs are destructive. Incidentally, my wife just had a reaction to Cipro, just as you mentioned.
I do not take a back seat to anyone in addressing the horrors of somatic psychiatry ā Drug psychiatry, ECT, and lobotomies. I oppose coercion and would never participate in it. I am fully well aware of and oppose the power and destructiveness of todayās psychiatry. I have likewise fought against bad psychotherapy all of my life.
At the same time I am committed to the quest for effective treatment. I am committed to the quest for scientific truth. I am committed to the psychotherapy of character because I believe it to be universally valid, effective, and the solution for todayās psychiatric madness.
I donāt support any professional guilds and their hold on power. I oppose all of that. My goal is not just to oppose what is wrong. My personal contribution us to affirm what I believe to be positive and constructive. My life is dedicated to my work, to attend to the suffering of my patients. What is most important to me are my patients and their well-being. As a practitioner, when all is said and done, that is what matters. I donāt seek some further role than what I do. I value my work and my practice.
I fully support fighting against todayās psychiatry. I do know that todays psychiatry will collapse upon itself. Because it is wrong and destructive. It has to, and I know it will. It is happening already. They are becoming increasingly desperate as the lies and false promises come home to roost. I support tearing it down which will hasten the process.
Yet, none of us know the future. But I do know that the quest for universal truths, and the processes of love and caring will arise again in the hearts of young people. Hope is with the young. My message is to them. If I can provide some guidance that inspires one person to keep fighting for truth and beauty, to listen to themselves, and to find their own way, then I am content. I donāt know the future of the various professions, but I do know that change will come from them, not from us, who have messed things up.
In the history of change, old ideas always become rigidified and turn into the next oppressor. History teaches us that this always happens. We all should appreciate this and support the freedom of young people to find their way. That also requires on the part of young people discipline, scientific honesty, integrity in the processes and the art of healing.
Thank you for such a thoughtful article. I agree with every point except the idea of a science court. I am cynical that it would easily be corrupted and misused by the money and power of the prevailing doctrines. A good idea that would not work in the real world. I fear it would veer away from your good purposes and be used to vilify the very opinions you wish to protect. On the other hand there needs to be a real education about the scientific method. Very few people, including many scientists, do not actually understand science. When followed correctly real science is a beautiful thing. Gone are the days when one searches mightily for counter evidence, the absence of which fosters a theory. Instead, people who question are called all sorts of viscous names.
Richard,
I appreciate your responses.And discussion is what its all about.
I do not regard myself as dogmatic. I write from my accumulated experience as I know the world to be, just as you do. I am cursed to have to think for myself and not follow any dogma. I also sense a kindred spirit with that same curse, although we donāt agree on some, if not, many things.
It isnāt from dogmatism, nor being unscientific. I donāt agree that psychedelic drugs āmight help people access certain traumatic memories that help them reprocess these past events in such a way (not previously possible) that allows the to move on from the negative power of said eventsā. My experience has taught me the opposite. In my experience, drug insights do not and can not get integrated in a real way. It is only emotional insights that are transformative, in the context of trust. Iāve not had the experience in my practice of not being able to access trauma. I have had the experience of dealing with pseudo drug insights which has to be disavowed, before the trauma can be accessed. These processes are what I have devoted my life to.
In terms of high horses, I would say, āYou can lead a horse to water, but you canāt make him float.ā
Just a note. I am opposed to the taking of all psychoactive drugs, not just antidepressants, benzodiazepines, opiates, cocaine, and amphetamines. Hallucinogens are the most psychoactive of all of them. The case many of you make that they are different from the others is kind of silly. Each drug is obviously different from the others. They have different mechanisms of action and effect different receptor sites. LSD fires up the brain in a random fashion. The consequent disorganization affects specifically the area for perceptions.
Keep in mind, we live our lives in our regular consciousness. Drug induced changes in consciousness arenāt a higher consciousness, but a different drug induced state of consciousness. Higher is just a false attribution. Itās also possible to play with consciousness without drugs. You may find your trips valuable which is not my business. It is my business to advocate for open usage or Psychiatric usage of hallucinogens.
Itās also possible that oneās so-called insights from acid trips are quite illusory and do not translate into either love or wisdom. Even though they may not be physically addictive, the drugs are often psychologically addictive, which isnāt a ton of difference. We all live in the real world, not a drug world. As they say in Zen: First there was a mountain; then was no mountain; then there was a mountain as before
The wards were filled with LSD psychoses in the seventies, whether you believe that or not. The very idea that hallucinogens will cure drug addiction and all the rest of psychiatric problems is nonsense. For people who are against psychiatric drugs (and I am one), Iām a little surprised that some of you actually believe in a chemical cure after all. Could this be a little hypocritical? The art of living a good life is very difficult indeed. It doesnāt only comes from mourning our traumatic pain. It comes from learning from our experience and finding our way to be open, honest, caring, non-judgmental, and courageous. Any way any of us get there is worthy of respect.
Rossa.
Whatās more important than anything else is your situation with your son. The last thing in the world I would want is to affect your relationship with hope. Other discussions are secondary.
My reference to Geel, is a historical one. It was a unique situation in Europe where people with schizophrenia were respected and valued. This is in contrast to otherwise vicious and horrendous attitudes. This was an enlightened exception to what was going on. Current day Geel is not the issue at all. When drugs came into Europe in the fifties, that infected Geel too. Todays Geel bears little resemblance to historical Geel. I was just referencing it as something humane. There was a humane period in the United States in the early nineteen hundreds, here in Massachusetts, when the state hospital system began. Back then the idea was for a pastoral cure where beautiful acres of land was used for individuals to be in nature, and away from industrial life. It was only later that it got perverted into warehousing and ended up as snake pits. Wars, and lack of money destroyed a good idea.
In my knowledge, throughout history there were many theories about schizophrenia, most of them were horrendous and wrong. Many originated in religious persecutions. There are lots of ideas around today, some may be right, and others may be wrong. Schizophrenia has been plagued by false ideas. Iām in favor of whatever is useful. Historically, outcomes from schizophrenia have brought a great deal of heartbreak to families. That does not mean it will in your case. In my experience I have had gratifying outcomes through the hard work of psychotherapy. If other approaches prove to be useful, then that would be great.
I wish you the best.
Richard,
I certainly have addressed the scientific legitimacy of contemporary psychiatry many times. āContemporary Psychiatric Diagnosis is a Fraud. The destructive and damaging fiction of biological ādiseasesā.ā and many other blogs. I do my best to address the truth as I see it.
When I started out there wasnāt any pharmaceutical psychiatry. My quest at that time was to promote good psychotherapy, which is still my quest. Although one does not need to be an MD to do therapy, I believe there continues to be a place for the doctorly practice of good psychotherapy. Not only that there is a huge need to be a doctor of the mind, as well as the body. The mind and the body are actually one thing. I feel its important to have that current vacuum filled with intelligence, care, and compassion.
I do my best to speak out. Iām clear about the state of psychiatry in todayās world. My identity is not political. I am a practitioner and this is what I value. I have spent many years as a kind of street priest psychiatrist, working in housing projects and committed to the community. We all try to do good in our own way. Your fight with psychiatry as a medical specialty is not mine.
Of course the consequences of drugs creating brain problems is huge. That does not relate to psychotherapy. There needs to be a cessation, or a careful taper. Then there is grappling with the long term consequences of physical effects on the brain from the drugs. There is no doubt that a supportive relationship while going through this is important. There may well be underlying issues that would be useful to deal with in therapy, the reason why one was inappropriately given drugs in the first place.
As usual, I donāt disagree. Psychotherapy requires that the therapist be in fact trustworthy. The therapist canāt be in it for his own ego, or power, or control, never mind sadism. It really is a calling that proceeds from respect and love. Each therapist must find his own way sufficiently to not impose, but to listen. The art of therapy proceeds through responsiveness and intuition. Therapy is ultimately moral, (not moralistic) and the recovery of innocence and authenticity, the real source of strength to make it in this world. There are always dangers of misuse and as you say gaslighting, but we must do the best we can in this imperfect world.
Rossa,
Let me try to clarify a few points. The issue as to how trauma is digested by our temperament is the essence of how the play of consciousness is written. In my understanding this is how consciousness is organized in the brain. It attends to how psychotherapy itself works by healing the trauma.
I donāt understand your problem with Geel. It has been an environment where individuals with schizophrenia have been accepted and treated with respect and love and appreciated for who they are. It is simply historically accurate to recognize that many people with schizophrenia suffer some degrees of disability. This has been true throughout history. The situation in Geel does not have any relationship to psychotherapy which is a very recent practice.
I am suggesting that people can recover very well from schizophrenia. And psychotherapy can be such an important help. Not everyone is the same. Some people end up with some disability and others do not. I have treated many people with schizophrenia. The comment about a first psychotic break was a reference to the fact that schizophrenia is not hopeless, as it is often assumed to be by todays incorrect standards. I certainly did not imply that there is no hope beyond the first episode.
Dr. B., I absolutely agree with the basic thrust of your article. I also agree with Alex that with a lot of hard work one can recover, though it would be far better not to be subjected to neurotoxins in the first place.
Alex,
I donāt disagree with anything you say. I deal with damage by therapist all the time. And furthermore, especially today, itās almost impossible to find a good therapist. Just in case you didnāt know, I include you as a good therapist. I donāt care what people call themselves. Most people in the regular world of therapists should stop what they are doing and get a real job someplace else. There are good ones out there, but its mostly a matter of luck, or word of mouth to find someone.
This does not mean that the real item canāt be taught. It needs a sympathetic person who has the internal grasp, the caring, and the humility. There are certainly too many people who bolster their own ego by being superior, in the āwe/theyā. Any good therapist has to come to terms with himself though his own process of discovery and caring. I also agree that great harm can be done. But nonetheless I know and value the beauty of the real process.
I am sympathetic to those who have been wronged and damaged by gaslighting and diminishment of any kind. It is infuriating.
LavenderSage
A very thoughtful response. And amazing and difficult to deal with such an abusive story. It is sadly not unusual for this to go back generations.
Alex,
Thank you for your painful and uplifting story. Listening to oneās own heart is the guidance. It always tells us the right path. Love and authenticity is what we are all about.
Alex,
As you know I respect and value your work. Although we do have differences over forgiveness. In my work for the most part, the inclination to practice forgiveness is often a form of masochism in the service of re-establishing or maintaining with an abuser. Often one still seeks approval and fear of rejection no matter what. In my experience it is mourning that frees one from the corrosiveness of resentment. After digesting the pain, one simply moves away from it, and it loses power. That is what sets one free to be and to love. I donāt see any role for forgiveness. At the same time, I would never try to control my patients as to how they should feel. I respect their own authenticity to find their own way. If forgiveness is important to them so be it, unless it operates as a masochistic issue.
So I hope in relation to our differences you can āforgiveā me.
Dr. B
As you know, I certainly do not believe biology is destiny. Nurture is what is important, not epigenetics. I’m not as impressed by epigenetics as the apparent scholar bbthelpe. Believe me I understand the research and the methylization of DNA. I think we will find in the long run that epigenetic effects will prove to be quite minimal. There are Lamarkians of every generation since Darwin. The proof is not at all conclusive as to what methylzation actually does. The studies which demonstrate epigenetic effects are pretty weak, although they are highly touted by the faddish press.
Alex,
I hope your move to the redwoods has brought you some peace. Thank you for the movie. I enjoyed it. Iām glad you decided to perform. Being a musician myself, I am familiar with the issues. I have to say it helped having some voices of angels on board. And the Band was a great choice for the finale.
I always appreciate your clarity. And I wish you well as always.
Thank you Alex.
I expect its just a matter of terminology. I think mourning is what is involved in coming to terms with the past. In my mind resentments are a major part of what needs to be mourned, which is how they lose their power to allow for the necessary shifts. Yes, and we then write a new play that doesnāt exactly change who we are, but allows us to be our best selves. I appreciate your sensibility and we share a common interest in āThe impact of our feeling and emotional nature on how our brain interprets our experience and creates our personal reality …ā
There’s no such thing as generalized anxiety. It just means one is removed from the trigger and the story. I’d be very interested in knowing the biochemical mechanism.
Daniel,
I donāt think itās possible to get scientific clarity on how serotonin actually operates on the brain with regard to mood and emotion, past a certain point. What I am suggesting is an explanation which covers the known facts, not just some of them. On this basis I feel reasonably clear. The theories that I have come across donāt even pretend to answer the various issues that have been addressed.
If you find that there are other understandings that seem more accurate, I of course would be open to that. Knowledge is not a personal possession but a link in the ongoing chain of our collective understanding. If something else is more accurate than throw out what I saw and go with the truth.
For sure simple chemical imbalance is just a joke. I havenāt seen anything else that addresses how ādepressionā actually relates to a neurotransmitter and describes a feasible mechanism. This explanation incorporates the relation between the neurological and the human. Again, this is very fully developed in the book, through brain development and embryonic morphogenesis and how they relate to consciousness.
Thanks oldhead,
Since I long ago stopped using Freudian/psychoanalytic terms Iām not capable of resuming now. Iām not being persnickety here, because I think itās important to speak from a new and inclusive paradigm, where the language is simple, clear, meaningful, and understandable. Iāve lost patience years ago with theoretical ideas like āidā that has no reference to actuality, but is a Freudian fantasy construct, and isnāt meaningful to me. Iād prefer to say it the way I did, that āHowever, what serotonin actually does is create a hardening of the self and an unconflicted selfishness. It intensifies an emotional hardening toward others. When fighting, you are hard and cruel. Your enemy is an āit,ā not a person. There is an attitude of coldness and hatred toward your adversary. This amplifies the emotional reality of the invisible sadomasochistic personas. The escalated hardness and coldness from adding in extra fuel for aggression is often experienced as feeling good. This is due to the fact that there is no conflict over hurtfulness. This has been numbed. To heal from cruelty, you have to feel the appropriate remorse and regret.ā Such a state has the potential, in certain people, to tend toward violence.
Daniel,
This explanation covers all the bases. This is a paradigm that that actually explains ādepressionā. (I didnāt get into how different temperaments generate different symptoms.) As I said, serotonin affects the mappings of problematic plays. Yes, it can get depleted. This is generated by the endless internal war, not some biochemical flaw that creates some imbalance. It is the war that generates symptoms. Antidepressants donāt correct an imbalance, they temporarily feed the internally created hunger. The over feeding creates an imbalance. In the article I didnāt address how addictive antidepressants are. When they cease to feed the war hunger, more and more serotonin is demanded. If one ties to stop, they believe the imbalance is recreated. As if more serotonin fixes the imbalance again. Often pharmacological psychiatrists expertly add one or two more antidepressants to the mix. And then when that doesnāt work they go to antipsychotics and even shock treatments.
I also didnāt address how problematic it is to discontinue (unnecessary and destructive) antidepressants. They create all kinds of debilitating symptoms. People often believe that their brain is truly damaged and the drugs are saving them. This is confusing, and is not true. MIA can tell you about these horrendous problems. Users commonly have horrific withdrawal symptoms that are almost never publicized. An array of frightening neurological symptoms appear when trying to detox off this psycho-active brain drugāvertigo, lightheadedness, burning or tingling sensations in the skin, difficulty with gait and balance, blurred vision, tremors, twitches and restlessness. Sometimes there are hallucinations. Often to discontinue antidepressants takes a year under careful supervision. And symptoms can continue for years after.
Believe me I understand that there is not a lot of good psychotherapy out there. But insufficient therapy does not mean the understanding of how it all works is not correct. I feel so strongly that we need to promote good psychotherapy. Iām sorry to suggest my book, but this is where I fully address psychotherapy, which is not a simple subject. āPsychotherapy of Character, the Play of Consciousness in the Theater of the Brain.ā In it I do address faith and religion, but in a very different context. I hope you read it and we can talk further.
I want to address what I feel are some misrepresentations. I must say that therapy is not ātelling people theyāre broken and defective and need to ārepairedāā. And there is no implication at all that ābadly developed personalities are to blame.ā People suffer because of how they adapt to trauma. The last thing in the world is some idea that they are to blame. Therapy is a respectful process that allows one to deal with their pain. In the context of boundaries, responsiveness and caring, one heals and recovers through their own authenticity. Therapy empowers the individual to fulfill themselves in their own way.
In no way is it the imposition of some theory. It is listening to the story and following it wherever it leads. A therapist is not superior in any way to his patient. That would violate ārespectā itself, and would be adding violations on top of violations.
Therapy is not about blame. We need to be clear where violations happen in order to face them an deal with them. Like Steve said – that we may raise our own children well.
In addition most mothers are good mothers and that is the most important basis of love in the universe. It is what makes our children flourish and thrive. As I said before – there are all kinds of damaging traumas. These all need to be addressed. This does not mean some incorrect idea that Iām saying the real hidden cause is bad mothering. That is certainly not what I mean at all. It means that attending to and mourning the traumas of life is what therapy is about.
And finally it is my experience that good therapy is a wonderful thing that frees people to be themselves, and to live and love well. That is what it is all about. It is not about control, or ego, or power or anything like that.
In addition, I do not think it is the only way that people can deal with their struggles. What Alex talks about I also completely agree with. For me, psychotherapy is how I make my contribution.
I would add a few points: I have written extensively that trauma overrides and rewrites the original play of character. A great deal of therapy deals with such trauma of all kinds.
The esssential point in the early years is that this is where the foundational play of character is written. This affects people all throughout life. The major forces at work there are parental. Brothers and sisters all have diferrent temperaments; parents don’t treat all children the same at all; Birth order makes a huge difference; kids adapt differently to deprivation and abuse; kids have different degrees of resiliance; do not imagine that people who come out of difficult circumstances don’t carry scars, they do. It is not misogeny to be clear about the the forces at work in the formative years. And again, maternal love is the most important thing in the universe.
I certainly agree that trauma from fathers, siblings, classmates, teachers etc. is major. However, the major player in the earliest formation of our character is mother, whether you like it or not. In general, mother is the most important figure – positively and negatively. The issue of deprivation is more subtle in its presentation, but not in its effects. A mother might seem to be doing all the good things, but something in the spirit isn’t there, and it affects the baby. Don’t get me wrong. I think maternal love is the most important thing on earth and I value it more than anything. One of the ways that a mother may effect her baby is – with a controlling father who intimidates mother and baby – the mother may not be able to provide sufficient nurturance due to being bullied. But the baby will nonetheless experience the absence of maternal nurture, even if it is not the mother’s fault. She is still the carrier of that nurture. It’s not about blame. I don’t know anything about your situation and I’m happy for you that your mother is a warm and wonderful person.
I am addressing here the early formation of character which affects us all throughout life. There are certainly traumas all along the way that affect us powerfully and that of course needs to be dealt with.
bpdtransformation, B.A.
I appreciate your thoughtful comments.
I hope you will read my book, and I would be very interested in your response. In fact, what I have to say is closest to Fairbairn. It goes the next step and doesn’t even use a language of defences at all. It does encompass neuroscience which didn’t exist back then.
When I started out psychiatry was not medicalized, and was purely humanitarian. I still hold out hope for a return to clarity. I think there is room for all practitioners, psychiatric and non psychiatric. And yes I don’t view it as medical. At the same time, in the best spirit, it is doctorly. I am often still suprised that later generations view psychiatry as medicalzed only. It didn’t used to be that way.
Honestly, it doesnāt really take a seven year study to know that talking to a patient is a revolutionary idea. Of course, we need psychotherapy; of course we need input from the community; medications may be relevant, but antipsychotics are not the treatment, but an aid to help diminish the terror. Schizophrenia is a human problem. People with schizophrenia are people. We need to make a relationship and deal with the psychotic character in psychotherapy. We need to treat the whole person. We have lost our way in believing that schizophrenia is some bio-neurological disorder.
Yes one can respond very powerfully from imagination. It can certainly have powerful effects. The whole art world operates through such scenarios, as a participant-observer. Even so, when you are subject to trauma it is of a different magnitude of harm.
Thank you GetItRight,
I agree with most of what you said. As far as number (1) is concerned. I agree and I go to great lenghts in my book to spell that out. I was using as much shorthand as I can in a blog. I think people have gone overboard with the return to LeMarkian anti-Darwin transmission to subsequent generations. In fact in my opinion such ideas are rather weak with not a lot of evidence. (2) I include emotional neglect as co-equal to abuse.It is major and has such import regarding attachment. (3) I agree. (4) I’m not all impressed with EMDR. In all honesty, I think it is a silly fad. As far as I’m concerned it’s all about mourning. That isn’t to say that feelings are and memories aren’t located in the body. They are. I find that they are accessible by paying attention to them. It was a typo, and I meant to say what you wrote, “that ought to be a safe harbor for attachments?”. As far as your last point, I’ve been impressed that it is all encompassed in the human story.
I’ve never been one to join organizations. I’ve just kept my head down and done my work. It’s only recently, after I finished my book, that I’ve learned that organizations such as ISPS and others even existed. I appreciate your information very much.
I love your ideas. I cannot tell you how rewarding and successful real psychotherapy has been with individuals with schizophrenia. Unfortunately it is rapidly becoming a lost art. It all centers on respect for our common humanity.
Sorry schizoeffective (nice name). No insult intended.
I completely agree with you. To stigmatize is itself a delusion born of ingorance, and misguided and inappropriate fear.
I refer to the drunk driving instance in the narrow sense that there is no intention of harming anybody. In a psychotic murder there can well be intent although displaced. Otherwise I agree with what you said. And for sure your point about psychiatric drugs is a good one.
I am sorry for your struggles. Antidepressants are addictive. There can be horrible effects of all kinds from discontinuation. And people end up believing their initial symptoms return. To stop medication, one has to do it very slowly over the course of a year. And still it is problematic. Unfortunately it should be done under the care of a psychiatrist. I wish you could find someone to work with, even two hours away, if just to deal with discontinuing the drugs.
Sandra,
Of course psychotherapy could as effectively be offered by otherās without medical training. I was however, writing about psychiatry in this post. I have addressed that elsewhere. I cannot easily address the dogmatic question. In blogās I have to resort to shorthand. I donāt mean to seem to be selling the book, but if you are genuinely interested as to whether the āpsychotherapy of characterā is dogmatic, I would hope your would read it. Iād be happy to discuss it.
You have underscored what this article is about. Empathy is a form of projective self-involvement. As far as transforming empathy into compassion, I suggest you are barking up the wrong tree. There is an entirely different mechanism for what you are calling compassion. Instead of Buddhist training, the potential and natural presence of responsiveness has been there all along. This is shown in my blog- “What is Love?” – http://robertberezin.com/what-is-love-an-ode-to-motherhood-on-mothers-day/
Was pleased to receive such a nice tweet from Brett Morgen, the writer/director of āMontage of Heckāā¦
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This is intense. Don’t agree w/ everything, but fascinating. Reflections on āMontage of Heckā
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I can tell you my opinion. I do not think that neuroleptics cause schizophrenia. I have seen only two episodes of anticholinergic intoxication syndrome. Despite the similarities of the description, the differences are obvious. It truly is a toxic state. If youāve ever seen it, it is clear. Schizophrenia has been present to the same degree since recorded time. Neuroleptics have been around for only the past sixty-five years. In my opinion the best treatment for schizophrenia is caring, responsiveness, and respect, with an understanding society. In my experience, good psychotherapy has been enormously helpful in my patientās lives. In working with some patients neuroleptics can help people contain unbearable terror. In those cases I give the control to my patients. This is NOT the treatment. Much of the time the drugs annihilate the spirit and make people zombified. They can generate all kinds of horrible long term side effects. The real issues to deal with are purely human ones.
I agree that ‘depression’ is not a disease; All the diagnosing is a tool for psychiatric drugs; you have just desribed the way psychotherapy should be.
Of course what you say is true. Crises certainly can be opportunities. In fact the Chinese pictogram of the word ‘crisis’ is the intersection of danger and opportunity.
Several things:
Oddly āIn the best tradition of science, one exception proves the rule.ā is the correct way to say it even though it would seem disproves would make more sense. The meaning of prove in this case is closer to ‘tests’…
I do entertain that schizophrenia has a possible genetic component. However, in my personal experience I have not found it harder regarding psychotherapy. In fact, such therapies have been very rewarding.
I would be the first person to recognize and honor nature and nurture.
I would like to add a last comment. In no way do I diminish the issues for these children and their parents. As I have said, my heart goes out to them. My main point is that they are NOT diseased. There are so many children who believe, no matter how it couched, by the dominant ADHD community that they have a brain disorder, certainly not by me. And this is not the case. They go through their life with this belief. I have dealt with many patients who grow up really believing that they have a genetic-neurological brain disease. I couldnāt be more sensitive to the issues of āsocial suffering and self loathingā. I deal with this all the time. My explanation of temperaments is intended as an alternative explanation as to why this occurs, which I believe is the real reason. It is not a āmolecular psychiatricā problem at all. It operates on an entirely different level of brain functioning and brain mapping. This does not diminish the problematic realities. This helps to understand why it happens. And I certainly respect efforts like yours to help. There should be more people like yourself. Whether you like it or not, in addition, there can be, Iām not saying always at all, abuse and deprivation in childhood which contributes to these kids spinning further out of control. If you believe thatās not the case, you may be naĆÆve. Other children with different temperaments will present with very different symptoms. I am certainly in agreement with you that you do not believe in medicating children. The harm done to these children is enormous. Keep in mind that the drug companies and the APA are medicating far more children than just these kids. What is happening to our children is truly frightening.
Iām not sure what is meant by scientific evidence. I will point out you are looking in the wrong place. In fact, there is no scientific evidence about ADHD at all. It is unnecessary to disprove something that has no evidence in the first place. On the other hand I have presented information that what is called ADHD is a function of a certain constellation of temperaments. And when the child is subject to deprivation and abuse, the behaviors can spin way out of control. I am very sympathetic to parents raising these children. I will repeat my own comment ā āOf course I understand how challenging it is to raise kids like this. I respect above all, the devotion, dedication, and love that it takes. (This is of course true for all kids). I do not use the name ADHD because it means a child is diseased and this is absolutely not so. The label itself is demeaning. I re-emphasize that it comes from oneās temperament. Raising these kids with good-enough boundaries and good enough love, is very, very difficult. Of course I am deeply sympathetic. (There are no perfect parents. We try, we make mistakes, we learn). I understand all this and I respect and feel for parents who deal with this. When you add in the traumas of deprivation and abuse, these kids spin way out of control. And the problem is nightmarish. It requires all kinds of approaches that need to be sensitively thought out. However, there is no place for stimulants. Other children, subject to deprivation and abuse, with different temperaments respond with different symptoms. They too are not diseased and should not be drugged.ā
ADHD is not a brain disease, It is a problem of temperament, (as well as complicated by trauma to children, but not always) which I spelled out in this blog. You should think with an open mind. If you want some āscientific factsā, check out ā āA Primer for School Psychologists and Counselorsā, by Peter R. Breggin, MD – http://ablechild.org/resources/important-reading/documents-reports/psycho-stimulant-effects-on-children/
Steve,
You are thoughtful as always. Of course I understand how challenging it is to raise kids like this. I respect above all, the devotion, dedication, and love that it takes. (This is of course true for all kids). I do not use the name ADHD because it means a child is diseased and this is absolutely not so. The label itself is demeaning. I re-emphasize that it comes from oneās temperament. Raising these kids with good-enough boundaries and good enough love, is very, very difficult. Of course I am deeply sympathetic. (There are no perfect parents. We try, we make mistakes, we learn). I understand all this and I admire what you have done. When you add in the traumas of deprivation and abuse, these kids spin way out of control. And the problem is nightmarish. It requires all kinds of approaches that need to be sensitively thought out. I know that you agree that there is no place for stimulants. Other children, subject to deprivation and abuse, with different temperaments respond with different symptoms. They too are not diseased and should not be drugged. There may be some medical elements, but in my experience, this is not significant. You may differ. I think it would be a great idea for you to write your book.
Interesting. I know problematic stories from different patients.
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That answer was in the wrong box.
As far as Szasz is concerned, he may have an astute analysis of Psychiatry, but that doesnāt mean he was a good therapist. These statements about therapy strike me as utter nonsense. My experience is quite the opposite. I cannot ignore the incredible value that therapy has brought to my patients. I would suggest keep an open mind and find out for yourself. Iād be cautious about being influenced by experts, including Szasz. Keep the good and throw out the rest. Think for yourself. Szasz was an intellectual. Therapy operates primarily through feeling. It is not an intellectual art or practice. I have devoted my life to my craft and being the best I can be. I only starting writing very late in my career. It was not central to my work. If there is one thing I truly know about it is therapy.
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No I donāt
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No I donāt.
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Unfortunately, Iāve heard that story many times. Iām sorry it happened to you.
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In my experience, I tried that years ago, there can be some relief, but it doesn’t get to the heart of the matter like real therapy.
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My bad.
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Great article. I couldnāt agree more.
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Thank you Mark. I wish I did see the pendulum swinging back. I certainly hope it does. It’s hard to go against the prevailing dogmas.
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That is certainly the right question.
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Good for you. It is possible that the hotribke physucal feelings you have still may come from the SSRIās
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Your ongoing well being is the only thing that matters. To be able to have “diet, exercise and gentle friends are the only ways to control the ongoing damage/residual effect of these dangerous drugs” is so very important. I would say that real therapy should be the opposite of Stockholm Syndrome, and I’m sorry that your’s created more trauma.
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I am certainly not eliminating biology. I am suggesting that the emotional pain the flows from the play of consciousness is in itself a form of biology. This is spelled out in great depth in my book. The way we respond to social aspects is incorporated the in play itself.
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Of course eating well, sleeping well, and exercise is good for everyone’s well being. I certainly am opposed to putting people on mind-altering drugs. recovering from SSRI’s, anemia and low thyroid certainly make one feel intense fatigue and depressed. Those are not emotional causes for depression.
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if you click on the blue “What doctors donāt know about the drugs they prescribe”. It will bring up the Youtube video of his Ted Lecture.
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I agree. A slow well monitored taper is the best way to detox from most of these drugs. And it doesn’t always work. Sometimes the residual effect can last for a very long time and some of the damage may not be fully reversible.
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I totally agree on both counts. I do not believe there is any brain disease called ADHD. In addition, certain children with active temperaments need more recess time. They may need more boundaries, and different structures in class rooms. In concert with trauma, they may spin out of control. Kids come in all shapes and sizes.
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I agree. Of course, psychiatric symptoms generated by drugs do not lend themselves to psychotherapy. This is specifically what I’m fighting against. These drugs are destructive. Incidentally, my wife just had a reaction to Cipro, just as you mentioned.
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I’m not familiar with that and I can’t find it online
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I do not take a back seat to anyone in addressing the horrors of somatic psychiatry ā Drug psychiatry, ECT, and lobotomies. I oppose coercion and would never participate in it. I am fully well aware of and oppose the power and destructiveness of todayās psychiatry. I have likewise fought against bad psychotherapy all of my life.
At the same time I am committed to the quest for effective treatment. I am committed to the quest for scientific truth. I am committed to the psychotherapy of character because I believe it to be universally valid, effective, and the solution for todayās psychiatric madness.
I donāt support any professional guilds and their hold on power. I oppose all of that. My goal is not just to oppose what is wrong. My personal contribution us to affirm what I believe to be positive and constructive. My life is dedicated to my work, to attend to the suffering of my patients. What is most important to me are my patients and their well-being. As a practitioner, when all is said and done, that is what matters. I donāt seek some further role than what I do. I value my work and my practice.
I fully support fighting against todayās psychiatry. I do know that todays psychiatry will collapse upon itself. Because it is wrong and destructive. It has to, and I know it will. It is happening already. They are becoming increasingly desperate as the lies and false promises come home to roost. I support tearing it down which will hasten the process.
Yet, none of us know the future. But I do know that the quest for universal truths, and the processes of love and caring will arise again in the hearts of young people. Hope is with the young. My message is to them. If I can provide some guidance that inspires one person to keep fighting for truth and beauty, to listen to themselves, and to find their own way, then I am content. I donāt know the future of the various professions, but I do know that change will come from them, not from us, who have messed things up.
In the history of change, old ideas always become rigidified and turn into the next oppressor. History teaches us that this always happens. We all should appreciate this and support the freedom of young people to find their way. That also requires on the part of young people discipline, scientific honesty, integrity in the processes and the art of healing.
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I couldn’t agree more with this entire article. I would hope that people will recognize that Big Marijuana is no different from Big Pharma.
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Thank you for such a thoughtful article. I agree with every point except the idea of a science court. I am cynical that it would easily be corrupted and misused by the money and power of the prevailing doctrines. A good idea that would not work in the real world. I fear it would veer away from your good purposes and be used to vilify the very opinions you wish to protect. On the other hand there needs to be a real education about the scientific method. Very few people, including many scientists, do not actually understand science. When followed correctly real science is a beautiful thing. Gone are the days when one searches mightily for counter evidence, the absence of which fosters a theory. Instead, people who question are called all sorts of viscous names.
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Thank You, as always Dr. Breggin
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Richard,
I appreciate your responses.And discussion is what its all about.
I do not regard myself as dogmatic. I write from my accumulated experience as I know the world to be, just as you do. I am cursed to have to think for myself and not follow any dogma. I also sense a kindred spirit with that same curse, although we donāt agree on some, if not, many things.
It isnāt from dogmatism, nor being unscientific. I donāt agree that psychedelic drugs āmight help people access certain traumatic memories that help them reprocess these past events in such a way (not previously possible) that allows the to move on from the negative power of said eventsā. My experience has taught me the opposite. In my experience, drug insights do not and can not get integrated in a real way. It is only emotional insights that are transformative, in the context of trust. Iāve not had the experience in my practice of not being able to access trauma. I have had the experience of dealing with pseudo drug insights which has to be disavowed, before the trauma can be accessed. These processes are what I have devoted my life to.
In terms of high horses, I would say, āYou can lead a horse to water, but you canāt make him float.ā
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One sentence didn’t come out right
“It is my business to advocate for open usage or Psychiatric usage of hallucinogens.”
It should read
“It is my business to object and disagree when one advocates for open usage or Psychiatric usage of hallucinogens.”
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Just a note. I am opposed to the taking of all psychoactive drugs, not just antidepressants, benzodiazepines, opiates, cocaine, and amphetamines. Hallucinogens are the most psychoactive of all of them. The case many of you make that they are different from the others is kind of silly. Each drug is obviously different from the others. They have different mechanisms of action and effect different receptor sites. LSD fires up the brain in a random fashion. The consequent disorganization affects specifically the area for perceptions.
Keep in mind, we live our lives in our regular consciousness. Drug induced changes in consciousness arenāt a higher consciousness, but a different drug induced state of consciousness. Higher is just a false attribution. Itās also possible to play with consciousness without drugs. You may find your trips valuable which is not my business. It is my business to advocate for open usage or Psychiatric usage of hallucinogens.
Itās also possible that oneās so-called insights from acid trips are quite illusory and do not translate into either love or wisdom. Even though they may not be physically addictive, the drugs are often psychologically addictive, which isnāt a ton of difference. We all live in the real world, not a drug world. As they say in Zen: First there was a mountain; then was no mountain; then there was a mountain as before
The wards were filled with LSD psychoses in the seventies, whether you believe that or not. The very idea that hallucinogens will cure drug addiction and all the rest of psychiatric problems is nonsense. For people who are against psychiatric drugs (and I am one), Iām a little surprised that some of you actually believe in a chemical cure after all. Could this be a little hypocritical? The art of living a good life is very difficult indeed. It doesnāt only comes from mourning our traumatic pain. It comes from learning from our experience and finding our way to be open, honest, caring, non-judgmental, and courageous. Any way any of us get there is worthy of respect.
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Rossa.
Whatās more important than anything else is your situation with your son. The last thing in the world I would want is to affect your relationship with hope. Other discussions are secondary.
My reference to Geel, is a historical one. It was a unique situation in Europe where people with schizophrenia were respected and valued. This is in contrast to otherwise vicious and horrendous attitudes. This was an enlightened exception to what was going on. Current day Geel is not the issue at all. When drugs came into Europe in the fifties, that infected Geel too. Todays Geel bears little resemblance to historical Geel. I was just referencing it as something humane. There was a humane period in the United States in the early nineteen hundreds, here in Massachusetts, when the state hospital system began. Back then the idea was for a pastoral cure where beautiful acres of land was used for individuals to be in nature, and away from industrial life. It was only later that it got perverted into warehousing and ended up as snake pits. Wars, and lack of money destroyed a good idea.
In my knowledge, throughout history there were many theories about schizophrenia, most of them were horrendous and wrong. Many originated in religious persecutions. There are lots of ideas around today, some may be right, and others may be wrong. Schizophrenia has been plagued by false ideas. Iām in favor of whatever is useful. Historically, outcomes from schizophrenia have brought a great deal of heartbreak to families. That does not mean it will in your case. In my experience I have had gratifying outcomes through the hard work of psychotherapy. If other approaches prove to be useful, then that would be great.
I wish you the best.
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Richard,
I certainly have addressed the scientific legitimacy of contemporary psychiatry many times. āContemporary Psychiatric Diagnosis is a Fraud. The destructive and damaging fiction of biological ādiseasesā.ā and many other blogs. I do my best to address the truth as I see it.
When I started out there wasnāt any pharmaceutical psychiatry. My quest at that time was to promote good psychotherapy, which is still my quest. Although one does not need to be an MD to do therapy, I believe there continues to be a place for the doctorly practice of good psychotherapy. Not only that there is a huge need to be a doctor of the mind, as well as the body. The mind and the body are actually one thing. I feel its important to have that current vacuum filled with intelligence, care, and compassion.
I do my best to speak out. Iām clear about the state of psychiatry in todayās world. My identity is not political. I am a practitioner and this is what I value. I have spent many years as a kind of street priest psychiatrist, working in housing projects and committed to the community. We all try to do good in our own way. Your fight with psychiatry as a medical specialty is not mine.
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Of course the consequences of drugs creating brain problems is huge. That does not relate to psychotherapy. There needs to be a cessation, or a careful taper. Then there is grappling with the long term consequences of physical effects on the brain from the drugs. There is no doubt that a supportive relationship while going through this is important. There may well be underlying issues that would be useful to deal with in therapy, the reason why one was inappropriately given drugs in the first place.
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Absolutely, with an emphasis on the deprivation side.
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As usual, I donāt disagree. Psychotherapy requires that the therapist be in fact trustworthy. The therapist canāt be in it for his own ego, or power, or control, never mind sadism. It really is a calling that proceeds from respect and love. Each therapist must find his own way sufficiently to not impose, but to listen. The art of therapy proceeds through responsiveness and intuition. Therapy is ultimately moral, (not moralistic) and the recovery of innocence and authenticity, the real source of strength to make it in this world. There are always dangers of misuse and as you say gaslighting, but we must do the best we can in this imperfect world.
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Madmom,
Thank you for your comment. I am so sorry for your daughter’s plight. Hopefully we can find our way to change.
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Rossa,
Let me try to clarify a few points. The issue as to how trauma is digested by our temperament is the essence of how the play of consciousness is written. In my understanding this is how consciousness is organized in the brain. It attends to how psychotherapy itself works by healing the trauma.
I donāt understand your problem with Geel. It has been an environment where individuals with schizophrenia have been accepted and treated with respect and love and appreciated for who they are. It is simply historically accurate to recognize that many people with schizophrenia suffer some degrees of disability. This has been true throughout history. The situation in Geel does not have any relationship to psychotherapy which is a very recent practice.
I am suggesting that people can recover very well from schizophrenia. And psychotherapy can be such an important help. Not everyone is the same. Some people end up with some disability and others do not. I have treated many people with schizophrenia. The comment about a first psychotic break was a reference to the fact that schizophrenia is not hopeless, as it is often assumed to be by todays incorrect standards. I certainly did not imply that there is no hope beyond the first episode.
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Dr. B., I absolutely agree with the basic thrust of your article. I also agree with Alex that with a lot of hard work one can recover, though it would be far better not to be subjected to neurotoxins in the first place.
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Thank you for your wonderful work. It’s tragic that this has taken so long. So many suicides and homicides could have been prevented.
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Very interesting life journey. I care not so much about different paths, it is always the heart that heals and openness of the being…
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Alex,
I donāt disagree with anything you say. I deal with damage by therapist all the time. And furthermore, especially today, itās almost impossible to find a good therapist. Just in case you didnāt know, I include you as a good therapist. I donāt care what people call themselves. Most people in the regular world of therapists should stop what they are doing and get a real job someplace else. There are good ones out there, but its mostly a matter of luck, or word of mouth to find someone.
This does not mean that the real item canāt be taught. It needs a sympathetic person who has the internal grasp, the caring, and the humility. There are certainly too many people who bolster their own ego by being superior, in the āwe/theyā. Any good therapist has to come to terms with himself though his own process of discovery and caring. I also agree that great harm can be done. But nonetheless I know and value the beauty of the real process.
I am sympathetic to those who have been wronged and damaged by gaslighting and diminishment of any kind. It is infuriating.
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LavenderSage
A very thoughtful response. And amazing and difficult to deal with such an abusive story. It is sadly not unusual for this to go back generations.
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Alex,
Thank you for your painful and uplifting story. Listening to oneās own heart is the guidance. It always tells us the right path. Love and authenticity is what we are all about.
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Alex,
As you know I respect and value your work. Although we do have differences over forgiveness. In my work for the most part, the inclination to practice forgiveness is often a form of masochism in the service of re-establishing or maintaining with an abuser. Often one still seeks approval and fear of rejection no matter what. In my experience it is mourning that frees one from the corrosiveness of resentment. After digesting the pain, one simply moves away from it, and it loses power. That is what sets one free to be and to love. I donāt see any role for forgiveness. At the same time, I would never try to control my patients as to how they should feel. I respect their own authenticity to find their own way. If forgiveness is important to them so be it, unless it operates as a masochistic issue.
So I hope in relation to our differences you can āforgiveā me.
Dr. B
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Thank you so much Fiachra.
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Thank you Peter. Great article.
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As you know, I certainly do not believe biology is destiny. Nurture is what is important, not epigenetics. I’m not as impressed by epigenetics as the apparent scholar bbthelpe. Believe me I understand the research and the methylization of DNA. I think we will find in the long run that epigenetic effects will prove to be quite minimal. There are Lamarkians of every generation since Darwin. The proof is not at all conclusive as to what methylzation actually does. The studies which demonstrate epigenetic effects are pretty weak, although they are highly touted by the faddish press.
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Great article Kelly.
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Alex,
I hope your move to the redwoods has brought you some peace. Thank you for the movie. I enjoyed it. Iām glad you decided to perform. Being a musician myself, I am familiar with the issues. I have to say it helped having some voices of angels on board. And the Band was a great choice for the finale.
I always appreciate your clarity. And I wish you well as always.
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Thank you Alex.
I expect its just a matter of terminology. I think mourning is what is involved in coming to terms with the past. In my mind resentments are a major part of what needs to be mourned, which is how they lose their power to allow for the necessary shifts. Yes, and we then write a new play that doesnāt exactly change who we are, but allows us to be our best selves. I appreciate your sensibility and we share a common interest in āThe impact of our feeling and emotional nature on how our brain interprets our experience and creates our personal reality …ā
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Thanks, BPDTransformation, B.A., that means a lot to me.
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As usual, a beautiful article.
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Yes, in my opinion it is an addiction and not a disease.
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Kallena
Thank you for addressing Kayla’s situation so beautifully. I hope it is helpful to her.
Dr. B
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There’s no such thing as generalized anxiety. It just means one is removed from the trigger and the story. I’d be very interested in knowing the biochemical mechanism.
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Hey Alex, I just watched ‘Voices that Heal’.
That was inspiring and real. Thank you so much,
Dr. B
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I appreciate your very thoughtful and beautifully written response.
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I couldn’t agree more
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oldhead
(I can’t reply directly, except under my own comment.) I am in total agreement with you and Dr. Breggin.
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Daniel,
I donāt think itās possible to get scientific clarity on how serotonin actually operates on the brain with regard to mood and emotion, past a certain point. What I am suggesting is an explanation which covers the known facts, not just some of them. On this basis I feel reasonably clear. The theories that I have come across donāt even pretend to answer the various issues that have been addressed.
If you find that there are other understandings that seem more accurate, I of course would be open to that. Knowledge is not a personal possession but a link in the ongoing chain of our collective understanding. If something else is more accurate than throw out what I saw and go with the truth.
For sure simple chemical imbalance is just a joke. I havenāt seen anything else that addresses how ādepressionā actually relates to a neurotransmitter and describes a feasible mechanism. This explanation incorporates the relation between the neurological and the human. Again, this is very fully developed in the book, through brain development and embryonic morphogenesis and how they relate to consciousness.
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Thanks oldhead,
Since I long ago stopped using Freudian/psychoanalytic terms Iām not capable of resuming now. Iām not being persnickety here, because I think itās important to speak from a new and inclusive paradigm, where the language is simple, clear, meaningful, and understandable. Iāve lost patience years ago with theoretical ideas like āidā that has no reference to actuality, but is a Freudian fantasy construct, and isnāt meaningful to me. Iād prefer to say it the way I did, that āHowever, what serotonin actually does is create a hardening of the self and an unconflicted selfishness. It intensifies an emotional hardening toward others. When fighting, you are hard and cruel. Your enemy is an āit,ā not a person. There is an attitude of coldness and hatred toward your adversary. This amplifies the emotional reality of the invisible sadomasochistic personas. The escalated hardness and coldness from adding in extra fuel for aggression is often experienced as feeling good. This is due to the fact that there is no conflict over hurtfulness. This has been numbed. To heal from cruelty, you have to feel the appropriate remorse and regret.ā Such a state has the potential, in certain people, to tend toward violence.
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Daniel,
This explanation covers all the bases. This is a paradigm that that actually explains ādepressionā. (I didnāt get into how different temperaments generate different symptoms.) As I said, serotonin affects the mappings of problematic plays. Yes, it can get depleted. This is generated by the endless internal war, not some biochemical flaw that creates some imbalance. It is the war that generates symptoms. Antidepressants donāt correct an imbalance, they temporarily feed the internally created hunger. The over feeding creates an imbalance. In the article I didnāt address how addictive antidepressants are. When they cease to feed the war hunger, more and more serotonin is demanded. If one ties to stop, they believe the imbalance is recreated. As if more serotonin fixes the imbalance again. Often pharmacological psychiatrists expertly add one or two more antidepressants to the mix. And then when that doesnāt work they go to antipsychotics and even shock treatments.
I also didnāt address how problematic it is to discontinue (unnecessary and destructive) antidepressants. They create all kinds of debilitating symptoms. People often believe that their brain is truly damaged and the drugs are saving them. This is confusing, and is not true. MIA can tell you about these horrendous problems. Users commonly have horrific withdrawal symptoms that are almost never publicized. An array of frightening neurological symptoms appear when trying to detox off this psycho-active brain drugāvertigo, lightheadedness, burning or tingling sensations in the skin, difficulty with gait and balance, blurred vision, tremors, twitches and restlessness. Sometimes there are hallucinations. Often to discontinue antidepressants takes a year under careful supervision. And symptoms can continue for years after.
Believe me I understand that there is not a lot of good psychotherapy out there. But insufficient therapy does not mean the understanding of how it all works is not correct. I feel so strongly that we need to promote good psychotherapy. Iām sorry to suggest my book, but this is where I fully address psychotherapy, which is not a simple subject. āPsychotherapy of Character, the Play of Consciousness in the Theater of the Brain.ā In it I do address faith and religion, but in a very different context. I hope you read it and we can talk further.
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Alex, as always, very beautiful and inspiring.
Dr. B
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Thank you, Warmac
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I’m very sorry ang for this tragedy.
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well said
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You certainly don’t need me to tell you that you are spot on. But I applaud you nonetheless. Boundaries and love…
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I want to address what I feel are some misrepresentations. I must say that therapy is not ātelling people theyāre broken and defective and need to ārepairedāā. And there is no implication at all that ābadly developed personalities are to blame.ā People suffer because of how they adapt to trauma. The last thing in the world is some idea that they are to blame. Therapy is a respectful process that allows one to deal with their pain. In the context of boundaries, responsiveness and caring, one heals and recovers through their own authenticity. Therapy empowers the individual to fulfill themselves in their own way.
In no way is it the imposition of some theory. It is listening to the story and following it wherever it leads. A therapist is not superior in any way to his patient. That would violate ārespectā itself, and would be adding violations on top of violations.
Therapy is not about blame. We need to be clear where violations happen in order to face them an deal with them. Like Steve said – that we may raise our own children well.
In addition most mothers are good mothers and that is the most important basis of love in the universe. It is what makes our children flourish and thrive. As I said before – there are all kinds of damaging traumas. These all need to be addressed. This does not mean some incorrect idea that Iām saying the real hidden cause is bad mothering. That is certainly not what I mean at all. It means that attending to and mourning the traumas of life is what therapy is about.
And finally it is my experience that good therapy is a wonderful thing that frees people to be themselves, and to live and love well. That is what it is all about. It is not about control, or ego, or power or anything like that.
In addition, I do not think it is the only way that people can deal with their struggles. What Alex talks about I also completely agree with. For me, psychotherapy is how I make my contribution.
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I would add a few points: I have written extensively that trauma overrides and rewrites the original play of character. A great deal of therapy deals with such trauma of all kinds.
The esssential point in the early years is that this is where the foundational play of character is written. This affects people all throughout life. The major forces at work there are parental. Brothers and sisters all have diferrent temperaments; parents don’t treat all children the same at all; Birth order makes a huge difference; kids adapt differently to deprivation and abuse; kids have different degrees of resiliance; do not imagine that people who come out of difficult circumstances don’t carry scars, they do. It is not misogeny to be clear about the the forces at work in the formative years. And again, maternal love is the most important thing in the universe.
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For sure. Then the single father or relative is the most important figure, positively or negatively, never mind the absence of mother.
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I certainly agree that trauma from fathers, siblings, classmates, teachers etc. is major. However, the major player in the earliest formation of our character is mother, whether you like it or not. In general, mother is the most important figure – positively and negatively. The issue of deprivation is more subtle in its presentation, but not in its effects. A mother might seem to be doing all the good things, but something in the spirit isn’t there, and it affects the baby. Don’t get me wrong. I think maternal love is the most important thing on earth and I value it more than anything. One of the ways that a mother may effect her baby is – with a controlling father who intimidates mother and baby – the mother may not be able to provide sufficient nurturance due to being bullied. But the baby will nonetheless experience the absence of maternal nurture, even if it is not the mother’s fault. She is still the carrier of that nurture. It’s not about blame. I don’t know anything about your situation and I’m happy for you that your mother is a warm and wonderful person.
I am addressing here the early formation of character which affects us all throughout life. There are certainly traumas all along the way that affect us powerfully and that of course needs to be dealt with.
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bpdtransformation, B.A.
I appreciate your thoughtful comments.
I hope you will read my book, and I would be very interested in your response. In fact, what I have to say is closest to Fairbairn. It goes the next step and doesn’t even use a language of defences at all. It does encompass neuroscience which didn’t exist back then.
When I started out psychiatry was not medicalized, and was purely humanitarian. I still hold out hope for a return to clarity. I think there is room for all practitioners, psychiatric and non psychiatric. And yes I don’t view it as medical. At the same time, in the best spirit, it is doctorly. I am often still suprised that later generations view psychiatry as medicalzed only. It didn’t used to be that way.
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Thank you for such a beautiful and elegant article.
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Honestly, it doesnāt really take a seven year study to know that talking to a patient is a revolutionary idea. Of course, we need psychotherapy; of course we need input from the community; medications may be relevant, but antipsychotics are not the treatment, but an aid to help diminish the terror. Schizophrenia is a human problem. People with schizophrenia are people. We need to make a relationship and deal with the psychotic character in psychotherapy. We need to treat the whole person. We have lost our way in believing that schizophrenia is some bio-neurological disorder.
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Someone Else,
I’m very sorry for your situation. You sound like you are doing the best you can. I wish you the best.
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Yes one can respond very powerfully from imagination. It can certainly have powerful effects. The whole art world operates through such scenarios, as a participant-observer. Even so, when you are subject to trauma it is of a different magnitude of harm.
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I couldn’t agree more…
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Thank you GetItRight,
I agree with most of what you said. As far as number (1) is concerned. I agree and I go to great lenghts in my book to spell that out. I was using as much shorthand as I can in a blog. I think people have gone overboard with the return to LeMarkian anti-Darwin transmission to subsequent generations. In fact in my opinion such ideas are rather weak with not a lot of evidence. (2) I include emotional neglect as co-equal to abuse.It is major and has such import regarding attachment. (3) I agree. (4) I’m not all impressed with EMDR. In all honesty, I think it is a silly fad. As far as I’m concerned it’s all about mourning. That isn’t to say that feelings are and memories aren’t located in the body. They are. I find that they are accessible by paying attention to them. It was a typo, and I meant to say what you wrote, “that ought to be a safe harbor for attachments?”. As far as your last point, I’ve been impressed that it is all encompassed in the human story.
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Thank you Alex. It means a lot to me.
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I’ve never been one to join organizations. I’ve just kept my head down and done my work. It’s only recently, after I finished my book, that I’ve learned that organizations such as ISPS and others even existed. I appreciate your information very much.
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I love your ideas. I cannot tell you how rewarding and successful real psychotherapy has been with individuals with schizophrenia. Unfortunately it is rapidly becoming a lost art. It all centers on respect for our common humanity.
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Thank you, Schizoeffective.
Much appreciated
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I couldn’t agree more. Great article!
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Sorry schizoeffective (nice name). No insult intended.
I completely agree with you. To stigmatize is itself a delusion born of ingorance, and misguided and inappropriate fear.
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I refer to the drunk driving instance in the narrow sense that there is no intention of harming anybody. In a psychotic murder there can well be intent although displaced. Otherwise I agree with what you said. And for sure your point about psychiatric drugs is a good one.
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Excellent point
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I am sorry for your struggles. Antidepressants are addictive. There can be horrible effects of all kinds from discontinuation. And people end up believing their initial symptoms return. To stop medication, one has to do it very slowly over the course of a year. And still it is problematic. Unfortunately it should be done under the care of a psychiatrist. I wish you could find someone to work with, even two hours away, if just to deal with discontinuing the drugs.
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I couldn’t agree more.
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Sandra,
Of course psychotherapy could as effectively be offered by otherās without medical training. I was however, writing about psychiatry in this post. I have addressed that elsewhere. I cannot easily address the dogmatic question. In blogās I have to resort to shorthand. I donāt mean to seem to be selling the book, but if you are genuinely interested as to whether the āpsychotherapy of characterā is dogmatic, I would hope your would read it. Iād be happy to discuss it.
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I couldn’t agree more. Our profession has completely lost its way.
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You have underscored what this article is about. Empathy is a form of projective self-involvement. As far as transforming empathy into compassion, I suggest you are barking up the wrong tree. There is an entirely different mechanism for what you are calling compassion. Instead of Buddhist training, the potential and natural presence of responsiveness has been there all along. This is shown in my blog- “What is Love?” – http://robertberezin.com/what-is-love-an-ode-to-motherhood-on-mothers-day/
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Thank you Alex
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Thank you for your comments weathervane. The term is my own which I feel correctly characterizes the drama in the theater of the brain.
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Yes I do have some thoughts on it. I would interested in hearing yours.
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Was pleased to receive such a nice tweet from Brett Morgen, the writer/director of āMontage of Heckāā¦
Brett MorgenVerified accountā@brettmorgen
This is intense. Don’t agree w/ everything, but fascinating. Reflections on āMontage of Heckā
Los Angeles, CA
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Thank you, Rossa. I’ll check it out.
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Very nicely put
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Love the Article Maraget
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I think you are spot on.
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I can tell you my opinion. I do not think that neuroleptics cause schizophrenia. I have seen only two episodes of anticholinergic intoxication syndrome. Despite the similarities of the description, the differences are obvious. It truly is a toxic state. If youāve ever seen it, it is clear. Schizophrenia has been present to the same degree since recorded time. Neuroleptics have been around for only the past sixty-five years. In my opinion the best treatment for schizophrenia is caring, responsiveness, and respect, with an understanding society. In my experience, good psychotherapy has been enormously helpful in my patientās lives. In working with some patients neuroleptics can help people contain unbearable terror. In those cases I give the control to my patients. This is NOT the treatment. Much of the time the drugs annihilate the spirit and make people zombified. They can generate all kinds of horrible long term side effects. The real issues to deal with are purely human ones.
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I agree that ‘depression’ is not a disease; All the diagnosing is a tool for psychiatric drugs; you have just desribed the way psychotherapy should be.
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Of course what you say is true. Crises certainly can be opportunities. In fact the Chinese pictogram of the word ‘crisis’ is the intersection of danger and opportunity.
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Thank you, and I couldn’t agree more with what you have said.
Dr. B
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Horrifying, I couldn’t agree more.
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I completely agree
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Several things:
Oddly āIn the best tradition of science, one exception proves the rule.ā is the correct way to say it even though it would seem disproves would make more sense. The meaning of prove in this case is closer to ‘tests’…
I do entertain that schizophrenia has a possible genetic component. However, in my personal experience I have not found it harder regarding psychotherapy. In fact, such therapies have been very rewarding.
I would be the first person to recognize and honor nature and nurture.
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I would like to add a last comment. In no way do I diminish the issues for these children and their parents. As I have said, my heart goes out to them. My main point is that they are NOT diseased. There are so many children who believe, no matter how it couched, by the dominant ADHD community that they have a brain disorder, certainly not by me. And this is not the case. They go through their life with this belief. I have dealt with many patients who grow up really believing that they have a genetic-neurological brain disease. I couldnāt be more sensitive to the issues of āsocial suffering and self loathingā. I deal with this all the time. My explanation of temperaments is intended as an alternative explanation as to why this occurs, which I believe is the real reason. It is not a āmolecular psychiatricā problem at all. It operates on an entirely different level of brain functioning and brain mapping. This does not diminish the problematic realities. This helps to understand why it happens. And I certainly respect efforts like yours to help. There should be more people like yourself. Whether you like it or not, in addition, there can be, Iām not saying always at all, abuse and deprivation in childhood which contributes to these kids spinning further out of control. If you believe thatās not the case, you may be naĆÆve. Other children with different temperaments will present with very different symptoms. I am certainly in agreement with you that you do not believe in medicating children. The harm done to these children is enormous. Keep in mind that the drug companies and the APA are medicating far more children than just these kids. What is happening to our children is truly frightening.
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Thank you Kim, and thank you for your story.
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Iām not sure what is meant by scientific evidence. I will point out you are looking in the wrong place. In fact, there is no scientific evidence about ADHD at all. It is unnecessary to disprove something that has no evidence in the first place. On the other hand I have presented information that what is called ADHD is a function of a certain constellation of temperaments. And when the child is subject to deprivation and abuse, the behaviors can spin way out of control. I am very sympathetic to parents raising these children. I will repeat my own comment ā āOf course I understand how challenging it is to raise kids like this. I respect above all, the devotion, dedication, and love that it takes. (This is of course true for all kids). I do not use the name ADHD because it means a child is diseased and this is absolutely not so. The label itself is demeaning. I re-emphasize that it comes from oneās temperament. Raising these kids with good-enough boundaries and good enough love, is very, very difficult. Of course I am deeply sympathetic. (There are no perfect parents. We try, we make mistakes, we learn). I understand all this and I respect and feel for parents who deal with this. When you add in the traumas of deprivation and abuse, these kids spin way out of control. And the problem is nightmarish. It requires all kinds of approaches that need to be sensitively thought out. However, there is no place for stimulants. Other children, subject to deprivation and abuse, with different temperaments respond with different symptoms. They too are not diseased and should not be drugged.ā
ADHD is not a brain disease, It is a problem of temperament, (as well as complicated by trauma to children, but not always) which I spelled out in this blog. You should think with an open mind. If you want some āscientific factsā, check out ā āA Primer for School Psychologists and Counselorsā, by Peter R. Breggin, MD – http://ablechild.org/resources/important-reading/documents-reports/psycho-stimulant-effects-on-children/
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Steve,
You are thoughtful as always. Of course I understand how challenging it is to raise kids like this. I respect above all, the devotion, dedication, and love that it takes. (This is of course true for all kids). I do not use the name ADHD because it means a child is diseased and this is absolutely not so. The label itself is demeaning. I re-emphasize that it comes from oneās temperament. Raising these kids with good-enough boundaries and good enough love, is very, very difficult. Of course I am deeply sympathetic. (There are no perfect parents. We try, we make mistakes, we learn). I understand all this and I admire what you have done. When you add in the traumas of deprivation and abuse, these kids spin way out of control. And the problem is nightmarish. It requires all kinds of approaches that need to be sensitively thought out. I know that you agree that there is no place for stimulants. Other children, subject to deprivation and abuse, with different temperaments respond with different symptoms. They too are not diseased and should not be drugged. There may be some medical elements, but in my experience, this is not significant. You may differ. I think it would be a great idea for you to write your book.
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I whole heartedly agree.
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I love that – āThe heart of the wise is in the house of mourningā. That very much is the point.
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