Hmmm.. I have worked in Mental Health for 25 years. I am not a therapist, but I don’t need to go to a biased school to be one. Asking why tells some one what they can change so it things happen differently. They don’t need to ruminate on why. Just find a different path, after they know why , to avoid that why. If you don’t become aware of the why, chances are the why will return.