Imagine being told your out of control child can’t have a diagnosis or any drugs until age 6. This would motivate some to look for an alternative to drugs and read about alternative parenting methods. I have 5 unmedicated children with ADHD. The first thing I did was treat myself for the temporary anxiety and depression they were giving me which helped me to be able to tolerate them. I treat their symptoms with supplements and use better parenting methods for the rest. I agree that all children develop in their own time and waiting patiently helps.