The_Cat, You are perpetuating a lot of stereotypes and are falling back on slippery slope fallacy to do so. A man can be feminite and fix his own car at the same time. The two are not mutually exclusive. This is NOT a Left problem by any stretch of the imagination. If anything, I am curious how inclined people who take risks to present themselves outside of social norm expectations are to start their own business and remove themselves from the very “dependent” design you accuse them of falling into.