I really appreciate Twilah’s perspective. While I understand that it is not EVERYONE”S perspective, and some people feel very differently, isn’t that very thing what we are trying to respect about each other? I see a lot of people here trying to be “right” instead of seeking to understand people who see things differently. That seems very problematic in a discussion about neurodiversity or any kind of diversity. Perhaps we should all spend less time determining whether we agree or disagree and more time just listening and learning.