Hi, Good comment. You could almost be speaking about something a psychiatrist had supplanted in your conscience. I think this post is mainly about minimising. It’s about taking your feelings, your general day to day feelings and saying that ‘this is normal, because i am indeed a human being’. Can you see where i’m coming from? We are all human, and I feel sure the people writing on this site see that every emotion is ‘natural’. Maybe there is a ‘third dimension’, maybe you can run with this. I’m thinking you have more mundane indicators which are making you unhappy, & possibly circumspect about this post. Money is one problem for most, which distorts our vision and our relative happiness & contentment. Good luck.