Just another platitude to shut us up. No, time does not heal all wounds. Spending time at a therapist’s office to try to do that just prolongs the pain imnsho. I’m so sorry you ex treated you so badly. I have a very similar ex…who is living happily with his latest female vic, who successfully alienated my children from me, who was awarded *all the property* leaving me homeless. The courtroom was just another venue for abuse. When I can’t sleep at night, I wonder how it is that the wicked have no problem sleeping; “how do you sleep at night?” I don’t know. I just don’t get it. As much as I intellectually know that ‘life isn’t fair’ I can’t let go of the injustice!!