@Igor: What if someone has no psychiatric labels and STILL abuses you? See how crazy psychiatry and neurononsense has made you? “Cluster B personality”, “neurotypical”, “X and Y traits”…..urgh. You had a shitty mother and 2 shitty GFs. And that’s it. All the intellectualising and playing around with psychiatric jargon and labelling criteria is not going to change that simple truth of life. It won’t bring you back your childhood, nor will it make anyone else’s better.