Reframing Mental and Emotional Pain from a Buddhist Psychology Perspective

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Consider this scenario: Youā€™re sipping a cup of tea on a cold morning, enjoying the warmth and flavor, and then the tea is gone. You experience a slight annoyance because the pleasant experience has ended. Or perhaps your beloved pet has become ill, and you experience overwhelming grief as you observe her health deteriorating. From the minor annoyance of finishing a delicious meal to the excruciating pain of losing something dear, we experience pleasant or unpleasant conditions incessantly, in every moment.

This continual cycle results in a vast spectrum of mental and emotional reactions ranging from ecstasy to unbearable pain, with varying levels of intensity and duration. Our understanding of, and response to, the continual contact with pleasant and unpleasant experiences either promotes emotional and mental wellness or intensifies mental and emotional suffering.

Illustration of a plant growing through a maze of darkness to emerge into sunlight

Buddhist Psychology offers an alternative lens that examines and seeks to gain insights about this human experience. The Five Hindrances framework explores understanding and recovering from mental and emotional pain by delving into the intricate interplay between mental processes, emotions, and external conditions. It empowers those suffering from mental and emotional pain by normalizing their experiences. By emphasizing the dynamic nature of mental and emotional states, Buddhist Psychology encourages individuals to explore the underlying causes of their suffering and develop strategies for coping and resilience.

Contemplative practices in Buddhist Psychology encourage observing mental and emotional processes to gain insights about them. This involves recognizing patterns that foster mental and emotional well-being while compassionately addressing those that do not. For instance, the mental process of analyzing can be beneficial when solving an algebra problem, but it may not be helpful in coping with emotional pain following the death of a loved one. Acceptance of the loss, as difficult as that might be, is a more adaptive response. Similarly, the mental process of planning helps up to set goals and prioritize. However persistent worry about future events can lead to anxiety and stress. A contemplative approach refrains from pathologizing and instead focuses on understanding and cultivating conditions that promote emotional and mental well-being. As contemplation deepens, a type of “treatment plan” often begins to emerge as we learn to distinguish between non-beneficial and beneficial mental processes, their causes, and conditions, and how to cultivate positive mental and emotional patterns and responses.

The Five Hindrances contain alternative concepts for understanding mental health and well-being as well the causes and conditions which create mental and emotional distress. The Five Hindrances include:

Sensual Desire. This hindrance refers to the almost constant drive to seek pleasure and comfort while avoiding pain and discomfort. Pleasure-seeking varies in intensity, from slight cravings to irrational obsessions and compulsions. We often believe that obtaining a particular object (girlfriend, new car, new figure, recognition, fame, etc.) will bring contentment. However, once we obtain the object, contentment is fleeting, and dissatisfaction soon returns. Hyper-consumerism, coupled with hyper-competitiveness, clouds our ability to see what truly brings us peace, joy, and contentment. It is easy to lose sight of what brings stillness and joy when we are bombarded by enticing advertisements defining that for us. This constant cycle of craving and dissatisfaction can lead to significant emotional and mental distress.

A basic mindfulness strategy is to recognize the hindrance as it arises. Sometimes desires are apparent, such as intense cravings for a particular food; others are subtle and experienced as a slight irritation. The constant cycle of wanting and dissatisfaction can undermine our mental and emotional well-being. If you look at this hindrance carefully, you might find that in every moment, there is a desire arising. The present moment contains X, but you donā€™t want X; you want Y. We are either grasping for a completely different condition other than the one that ‘IS,’ or the present moment might be generally pleasant, but we can think of one or two things we might like to change.

Mindfulness of desire may also reveal cravings that are healthy, such as for nutritious food or exercise. However, even healthy cravings may disrupt our focus on the present moment, causing frustration if unfulfilled.

Ill Will and Aversion. This hindrance encompasses a vast array of experiences that range from finding something slightly distasteful, or off-putting, to intense hatred. Ill will and aversion can be seen as the opposite of sensual desire. While sensual desire pursues, ill will and aversion pushes away. Ill will and aversion can be directed internally (negative self-talk, self-harm) or externally (hurtful words, violence). During high intensity levels of ill will and aversion, the potential for impulsive, irrational, or illogical thought and emotional patterns emerge. Like the previous hindrance, ill will and aversion are pervasive experiences of the human condition. Therefore, mindful awareness when faced with challenging conditionsā€”those we dislike or even hateā€”is a powerful coping skill to regulate and cope with distressing thoughts and emotions.

The practice of mindfulness, particularly attention regulation, helps us recognize when ill will and aversion arise. Understanding that the aversive mind is not the rational mind allows us to detach from these thoughts. This recognition supports the ‘mindfulness pause,’ which encourages postponing impulsive actions driven by ill will and aversion. For example, if someone feels intense anger towards a colleague, mindfulness can help them acknowledge this anger without immediately reacting. This pause allows for a more measured and rational response, reducing the potential for conflict.

While ill will and aversion can be seen as the opposite of sensual desire, they share a significant similarity: both are persistent and experienced almost constantly. In varying levels of intensity, the present moment is either lacking something we crave, or contains something we donā€™t like. The lens of Buddhist Psychology offers invaluable insights into recognizing and understanding conditions, objects, or phenomena that we find disagreeable. However, through contemplative practices like mindfulness and meditation, we can illuminate our awareness. By doing so, we gain a deeper understanding of when ill will and aversion arise, allowing us to restore equanimity in both body and mind.

Sloth and Torpor. Sloth and torpor refer to the hindrance of physical laziness and mental laziness respectively. Like all the hindrances, sloth and torpor manifest in various levels of intensity. When sloth arises, contemplative practices encourage recognizing the conditions that give rise to it, as well as noticing its qualities such as duration and triggers. For instance, when feel lazy and donā€™t want to exercise, I’ve noticed making a small effort, like putting on my tennis shoes often dissipates the feeling of sloth. Torpor, or mental laziness, manifests as an aversion to mental activities perceived as challenging or uninteresting. While lack of interest can reach pathological levels, it’s not always harmful. Ā Buddhist Psychology urges us to turn our awareness to the conditions giving rise to these hindrances and to cultivate healthy responses. Sloth might dissipate with proper nutrition, rest, or exercise, while torpor may fade by engaging in novel experiences, finding purpose, or enhancing concentration. Overcoming sloth and torpor requires the right effort and pushing through discomfort, forming a foundation for overcoming all hindrances.

Restlessness and Worry. This hindrance consists of both physical and mental aspects. The physical aspect of restlessness presents on a spectrum ranging from slight unease or fidgeting to hyperactivity, tenseness, and nervousness. The mental aspect is worry, which results in mental processes such as rumination and negative thinking. Both restlessness and worry can vary in intensity, from mild unease to overwhelming distress.

Buddhist Psychology recognizes restlessness and worry as normal biological responses to danger or uncertainty. When restlessness or worry arise, examining the previous hindrances can be helpful. The present moment, as we currently perceive it, contains conditions we donā€™t want (aversion), is lacking something we want (desire), or is without passion or purpose (sloth and torpor). Awareness of this and all hindrances also reveals their transitional nature. Hindrances appear, gain intensity, peak, and then gradually fade away. They are not gone permanently, as they can arise again when the conditions are right.

Awareness and contemplation of this hindrance reveal how it can precede positive mental states, such as when mild worry results in problem-solving. However, it is generally necessary to recognize the hindrance at low intensity levels to take advantage of the beneficial motivation and redirection it may provide.

Doubt. This hindrance reflects not knowing or knowing wrongly. Not recognizing the full scope, characteristics, causes, and conditions of reality results in doubt or knowing wrongly. For example, while my senses tell me I am sitting in a chair, this perception does not recognize the full scope of reality, which includes the fact that I am moving around the sun at 67,000 MPH. Most of what we ā€œknowā€ comes from input derived from our sense organs. The reality derived from our limited sense perception is vastly incomplete.

In Buddhist Psychology, the brain is considered a sense organ. If the eye provides sensory information about color and form, the sensory input derived from the brain includes thoughts, memories, perceptions, predictions, and more. If our eyes, nose, mouth, ears, and skin provide limited data about reality, the sensory input of the mind is similarly limited. Of the approximate 60,000 thoughts I have every day, I wonder if any of them are completely accurate.

Examination of doubt in psychotherapy presents notions of sensory input of the brainā€”thoughts, perceptions, memoriesā€”and casts suspicion on their validity. It then becomes much easier to challenge firmly held beliefs. This dialogue can proceed to include discussions of a new reality, hopes, and possibilities.

Buddhist Psychology presents a simple yet profound template for recognizing the biological, emotional, and mental reactions that result in mental and emotional pain. This pain exists on the spectrum, from slightly noticeable to intense and overwhelming. Contemplative and awareness practices encourage a disciplines examination of the hindrances, exploring their presence, absence, the conditions that make them arise and dissipate, and the adaptive levels of their intensity. The Five Hindrances add additional depth to our understanding of experiences that create emotional pain. This approach to recognizing the human experiences that lead to mental and emotional suffering feels kinder and may promote a less stigmatizing identity than one arising from an official diagnosis.

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42 COMMENTS

  1. All the Buddha did was observe and through observing, understand himself, and this is the essence of psychological healing that you speak of. My difficulty is understanding how such a simple process is turned into such an enormous sprawling mass of Buddhist thought which can’t compare to the direct insights gleaned from simply observing and through observing, understanding what is. And the Dalai Lama is a very funny and very nice man, but he’s about as enlightened as my toe nail. That is not an insult! My toe nail is very Zen. But the Buddha would never have been a Buddhist would he. You know he wouldn’t, and these silly traditions about the Dalai Lama being the Buddha make a mockery of his timeless and simple wisdom. You can’t in good conscience argue against that, can you, because you know what the Buddha actually said. He said don’t follow and don’t practice. Don’t listen to authority. See and understand. He may have said this or that number of noble or whatever truths, but utterances contain truths – you don’t have to number them and brainwash yourself by repeating them incessantly. You just have to see and understand the reality they are talking about! Do you see what a mental disease Buddhism, indeed all religion, has turned into?

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  2. I stopped reading where it said analysis will not help the emotional pain experienced when you lose a loved one. A Buddhist might consider the intrinsic emptiness of all conditioned phenomena. And in this light, it is hard to feel sad about death. In the Buddhist scriptures, Siddhartha Gotama tells a disciple requesting help for a dying child to find a home where someone hasn’t died. Obviously they are not able to do so. Even Siddhartha Gotama himself died when Ananda did not beg him three times to stay in this world for the remainder of the eon. And then his students who did not heed his teaching clutched their ankles in their hands and cradled themselves back and forth like babies. The students who heeded Buddhism carried themselves onward to the goal in the understanding that all conditioned phenomena are transitory; even the contingent, historical, human body of an enlightened one.

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  3. I disagree with your interpretation. The historical Buddha Siddhartha Gotama instructed The Sangha to refer to the collection of his insights and compare them to what Buddhist teachers might say to see whether they exist in concordance to each other. In that sense, I agree with some aspects of your comment. Religion is the opium of the masses, it relieves suffering for vast multitudes of people; it is the heart of a heartless world. I reject your analysis that religion is a disease. Tenzin Gyatso is recognized as The Bodhisattva Avalokitesvara by many thousands of people. I recommend this article by Michael Parenti to inform the reader about how The People’s Republic of China assisted the Tibetan People in liberating themselves from feudalist autocracy:
    https://redsails.org/friendly-feudalism/

    In the final analysis, applied religion is a productive pursuit for millions of people and I consider it an intrinsic aspect of our human process.

    The Narayaneeyam has taught some people that atheism and anti-theism also draw their practitioners closer to what is called God. I also recommend the writings of the Catholic Cardinal Nicholaus Cusanus to the interested Witness.

    By the way, Siddhartha Gotama acknowledged himself to have achieved the deathless. In modern language, I might say that he also considered himself the very archetype of what Buddhists aspire to. Yes, I do think it is accurate to say that Siddhartha Gotama was a Buddhist. His teachings transcended his biographical identity. Therefore because he was ‘The Buddha’ of our era (but not the only ‘Buddha’ — there are infinities of infinities of Buddhas who exist independent of Time or the quality/quantity dualism) he was literally his own follower. Refer to the sutras for more information.

    As for teachers, I agree with you that one must become one’s own teacher. The writings of Sextus Empiricus are also relevant to the aspiring skeptic. However, to associate with good company is an excellent method of self-instruction.

    Also, recitation of sutras is a practice that has been endorsed by Buddhist leaders for a very long time. Chanting a Buddha’s name is also considered beneficial by many highly regarded teachers. Even in the Zen school you reference, repetition of a Koan (sometimes translated as riddle) is one of the methods of initiation teachers use to help students.

    I hope this helps.
    Namo Amitabha

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    • I expect you’re right, but who cares? The Buddha was you minus all the crap in your head including your religion and practices. Why not ditch the junk and become the Buddha? It is a form of insanity that you don’t see this.

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        • ” Iā€™ll bet Siddharta Gautama himself would agree too” – I think you’re right: I can’t imagine him ever being a Buddhist to be quite honest! And the ironic thing is that I think most Buddhists would agree too! What a mad world we live in.

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          • “What a mad world we live in.” Indeed.

            I think lots of people intentionally(?) misconstrue things as a way of drowning out feelings of fear, powerlessness, self-doubt and guilt. And the stronger these feelings, the more tightly they cling to bad ideas like “psychiatry”, a modern religion of illness and judgement.

            Buddhism, on the other hand, is not about condemnation.

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      • “Insanity” is a convenient way to marginalize people. I can see that you don’t care but I, for one, do. What you call the Buddha sounds more like an excuse to discard effort. If you take no interest in the life or teachings of the Buddha, I feel very surprised that anyone listens when you talk about the Buddhadharma.

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  4. I’m channelling Mother Nature for you: “Hey, I beat the beat, you eat the beat, then beat the beat, I beat the beat right, I beat the beat tight: I beat the beat boss so betray me and die/ I am the bobcat and the elephant: I am the night and her unconscious fist: I have your head locked in between my tighs: I’ll turn you gunners into daffodils.” PS, the only reason we unconsciously created civilization is that we were unconsciously recreating the womb through our actions, which is the nirvana principle of total environmental non-violence or equinimity. But instead we created office furniture and spectacles and need electric shocks like coffee and donald trump to keep us awake. Woops

    Oops

    Telephone tomato
    Telephone tomato c*nt no
    Telephone tomato
    Jo Biden’s face is on my c*nt yo
    Donald Trump’s dick is in my face yo
    Rishi Sunaks lips are on my dick yo
    My needling dick is up his arse yo
    Telephone tomato
    Telephone tomato c*nt no

    Have a nice day.

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    • Man has the power of creative reason which is the ability to willfully increase his potential relative population-density by bringing his mind into greater cohesion with the negentropic order of the universe. This is what separates us from the animals. In a healthy economy human beings constantly advance technologically which allows our civilization to support more and more members of our species.

      There’s a book you might like called Knowledge of the Womb, written by a Greek psychiatrist who pioneered a science called autopsychognosia. Stanislav Grof’s perinatal matrices also stand relevant. The truth is, the womb can be a very traumatic experience.

      From the perspective of established Buddhist doctrine, nirvana and samsara are essentially one similitude.

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      • I’ve come across Grof who, although quite a simple investigator, has investigated amazing and mind blowing aspects of human consciousness, but I’ve not heard of “Knowledge of the Womb” and it’s an alluring title! I hope there’s an audio version because I can’t read anymore and haven’t opened my mail for 2 years. Numbers and letters make Mother Nature go mad, and we are that Mother Nature gone mad through words and numbers. Take away the words and numbers and you are basically a tree that talks and f*cks! Sorry. There are ants in my pants.

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  5. Mommy, I hate my body. OK then, you must be in the wrong one. Why not iron out your pancake breasts! Then you’re a man and everything is fine.

    Or we could try and make our kids feel loved, encourage self-love, which implies self-acceptance, and then if they decide to transition it won’t be a result of our mental pathology. Only the body can be male or female. Thought can think ‘I am male or female’ but this is no-fact. Awareness itself is beyond gender, and masculine, femanine and neutral currents of consciousness pass through us all. Instead we go for the socially conditioned auto-rejection of what is and encourage creatures of nature to become something they can never be, which is what they are not. Thus the world goes mad.

    I’m sorry – this is not strictly relevance because it is the simple fact, and there’s no place for simple facts in a culture dominated by opinions, conclusions, theories, assumptions, social norms and other destructive non-facts issued from a social mind that forgot the clitoris even existed out of fear. We see ladies jump on chairs to escape the mouse or spider. Well you’ll frighten a man even more with a clitoris. Unless they are a gynaecologist, which is of no comfort to women at all.

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    • I agree that parents should encourage and support their children. What does that look like in concrete practice?

      I disagree that awareness is beyond gender because my body consciousness is a subjective consciousness. I was born with a penis and I have grown from a boy into a man. I think there are more important issues that topics such as gender ideology distract us from. Then again, importance is relative to one’s experiences. My history indicates that it is superficial to focus too much on one’s flesh-and-blood body. I have also had times in my life where I have spent too much time thinking about my own. Maybe one’s emotion body can seem more real than one’s flesh body. I think happiness comes from within. So if you think that you’re a woman born in a man’s body for example, why should you mutilate yourself to validate that feeling? If it were a true experience for you then wouldn’t experiencing it be its own meta self-validation? Why should surgery follow?

      I’m asking sincerely. It appears to be a never-ending abyss if you expect happiness to come after some next consequence. I also think in this way sometimes. It seems to be a form of masochistic self-denial.

      Yes, I am a man and I am frightened by a clitoris. Keep the vaginas away from me. Siddhartha Gotama instructed his disciples that monks are supposed to avoid contact with women. (I am not a monk, just a bit of a misogynist who likes learning about all sorts of niche interests.)

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      • Haha. I can’t really see much difference in what we’re saying, except obviously awareness, being the simple illumination of what is, has no gender itself. Only the happenings IN awareness can be masculine or feminine, or in the case of the human body alone, actually male or female. But your view on transitioning is similar. If it is the result of self-acceptance and self-understadning that’s one thing, but if it’s an emotional reaction based on jumping to the conclusion that I’m in the wrong body, then I feel this is a recipe for life long disappointment, which to admit to would be to admit that you had ruined your life pursuing something you were adamant that you wanted (you’d have to be adamant to get it). At least this is the risk. And thank you for admitting you’re fear of female genitalia!! I love a bit of honesty.

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  6. Thank you so much, Diane, for this excellent summary of the theory of the five hindrances. I will share your article with a friend who is very identified with “her ADHD” and thus looks at herself as if something was wrong and defective about her.

    I told her that we Buddhists think that restlessness and worry are a very common and normal thing. And that we would describe her personality style simply as one that has a lot of it but that it was not necessary to think it was bad or wrong.

    I explained to her that she was adding another layer of pain by condemning it on top of the unpleasant experience herself and she instantly understood that that was the case. I also told her that she could find out about what her agitation was really about by learning meditation.

    I also told her that agitation was not the only “annoying” thing one can have. When I told her that its opposites were sloth and torpor I think she was already feeling a bit better about herself: At least she didn’t have too much of those!

    If you are interested in my feedback about the overall drive of your article: I think your approach is still pretty clinical. You are still trying too hard to stop the bad things. I would try to even more let go of that approach.

    It is not necessary to adapt the eightfold path to the “special needs” of anyone, not even to folks with mental health issues. The standard teachings work for anyone at every time and in every situation. It is just that you have to be smart to chose what “practice” might be best four you when you have chronic psychic problems or when you find yourself under a lot of pressure.

    Sometimes, for example in a depressive episode, yoga, doing crafts like sewing, cleaning, and going for long walks are preferable to silent retreats. Metta or prayer practices might be more helpful than Zen meditation ect. And I think that if you could support people in chosing the right combination of practices at the right amount (less is more) and at the right time. That would be very helpful for so many people.

    What I think is totally unnecessary is to apply techniques like questioning believes as is suggested in CBT and what you also talk about above. I don’t think that they are in accordance to the Buddhist teachings. It is not an intellectual understanding of they’re “dysfunctionality” that makes us able to let go of them.

    Buddhist psychology claims that it is only an intuitive understanding about something causing us pain, wisdom, that is able to do so. Wisdom arises simply by following the teachings and the practices. We can’t push or pull or squeeze our minds to more inner freedom. When we practice with ease and right effort good results will come naturally.

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  7. I think if more people in the west studied Buddhist psychology 98% of them wouldn’t end up in a therapist’s office or seeking psychiatric drugs as in it there lies a foreseeable end to toxic guilt and the forever search for co-dependent relationships with earthly (or otherworldly) beings.

    “Buddha Philosophy and Western Psychology”, Nih.gov

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    • “…Fromm declared: ‘Psychoanalysis is a characteristic expression of the Western man’s spiritual crisis, and an attempt to find a solution. The common suffering is the alienation from oneself, from one’s fellow man, and from nature; the awareness that life runs out of one’s hands like sand, and that one will die without having lived; that one lives in the midst of plenty and yet is joyless.’ [9]. Fromm continues: ‘Zen is the art of seeing into the nature of one’s being; it is a way from bondage to freedom; it liberates our natural energies; and it impels us to express our faculty for happiness and love.’ [9]. ‘What can be said with more certainty is that knowledge of Zen, and a concern with it, can have a most fertile and clarifying influence on the theory and technique of psychoanalysis. Zen, different as it is in its method from psychoanalysis, can sharpen the focus, throw new light on the nature of insight, and heighten the sense of what it is to see, what it is to be creative, what it is to overcome the affective contaminations and false intellectualizations which are the necessary results of experience based on the subject-object split’.[10]”

      – “Buddha philosophy and western psychology”, Nih.gov

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  8. I honestly think the idea of meditation has become so firmly established in the social consciousness and the ego, and has become such an ossified, artificial and misused word, that it has lost all value, because it no longer means the simple observation and through observation, the understanding of your life from moment to moment, which is what it always meant, what the Buddha taught, and the best teachers that came after him. Seeing what is as it is isn’t a practice but the natural consequence of realizing that one MUST observe and understand ones life, and you have to see that fact for yourself, and work it out. One obvious clear reason why we must see what is for ourselves is that nothing can be taken on faith or belief or authority, otherwise it is not understanding but that socially conditioned, fraudulent form of understanding we call ‘knowledge’ which has no value in transformation. Invariably spiritual knowledge is a block on a natural and free spiritual process that is beyond words.

    As Krishnamurti always said, we must have FREEDOM, freedom to observe, freedom to see and express our natural movements in order to understand them, and through that understanding, heal them. Once we get this one simple point, where is the need for a teacher? Because our awareness of our natural movements in freedom IS our teacher. It teaches the brain what the organism, mind and awareness is through perception. Awareness teaches the brain how simply to observe without labelling etc, because that’s all it ever does. The nature teaches us about it’s contradictions, it’s traumas, it’s explosive desire or lust or whatever, and that understanding works unconsciously to our brains to fix these problems in whatever manner and whatever time scale it naturally takes – there is nothing for us to worry about at all. Nothing else is required besides freedom and awareness of what is happening moment to moment, and so many revered teachers have said this that we have to suspect it is not simply our failure to understand this point that is standing in our way.

    So, why can’t we do freedom? Why must we depend on authority? Why must we try and measure and plot out everything with knowledge? Surely you can look within yourself now and see the answer inside you. Why are we addicted to knowledge and authority? Surely each of us can ask ourselves this and try and find out – just finding this out obviously transforms the brain because the brain has learned something new and fundamental about itself, and will intelligently adapt accordingly around all the infinitely complex operations of the brain and mind. The idea that WE are doing the transformational work is absolutely insane if you think about how immeasurably complex even just a single organ of the human body is, let alone the brain and the whole organism and all the infinitely manifold feelings, thoughts and memories that need to be understood and resolved. Imagine a toddler blundering in to this asking “now let’s think what to do in order to transform”. That toddler is us.

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  9. Thank you for this article
    It is a very good introduction to some tenets of Buddhist psychology
    I am grateful for you sharing your compassionate understanding
    We need more of this in mainstream psychiatry which medicates numbs and harms with its narrow understanding and biomedical model only

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    • Hello Nina. Thank you for taking the time to leave a comment. I do believe that teachings from Buddhism could greatly benefit mainstream psychiatry by providing a sort of template for understanding our minds, emotions, consciousness/unconsciousness etc. Yesterday I was noticing how often I felt dissatisfaction because of sensual desire. It’s like white noise in my mind. But, when I notice my desires, rather than chasing them, I can “swipe right”. This is what I refer to as having a non-beneficial thought. Observe it. Swipe right. No problem. Continue to pay attention to see what the mind will come up with next. There is freedom in this practice, Nina. I hope you benefit from it. – In peace – Diane

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  10. This is the first I have ever heard of “Buddhist Psychology.” I don’t believe that the Buddha was at all focused on solving the problem of what we sometimes call “abnormal psychology” or destructive behaviors that have a mental origin.

    I don’t see any mention of reincarnation here, or what the Buddhists usually call “rebirth.”

    Thus, like the Buddha, who believed that practice alone could lead to the enlightenment necessary to achieve Nirvana, Buddhist Psychology seems to focus on “thinking yourself sane.” We cannot expect the truly troubled to ever get better by a thought process alone. It just isn’t practical.

    Freud had a good idea, which was to examine “suppressed” traumatic experiences in order to relieve the patient of the hidden effects these experiences were having on their thought and behavior. However, Freud was not willing to deal with the problem of past lives, and so failed.

    When the problem of past lives was fully confronted, a more successful therapy was developed. But beyond that, a whole new understanding of the human experience was developed.

    When it comes to actual therapeutic work, addressing suppressed trauma with the help of a trained professional is absolutely essential.

    But we also have the new understandings that have resulted from this work. They apply broadly to life, including even physics and cosmology. They offer the promise of an intellectual revolution in all the sciences and humanities. To continue to ignore reincarnation after all the work that has been done with it is a blemish on the field of Psychology, and on intellectuals more generally. There is really no excuse for it.

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  11. Absolutely awesome essay, thank you, Diane and MIA.

    Like the Buddhist religions, however, I think this +religious) version, at least, of Buddhist psychology misses the whole point of the most basic Buddha philosophy – that we can be enlightened NOW.

    I don’t believe in laziness or any other sinfulness, but only in forgetfulness.

    When lethargic, we are tired or unmotivated or, more likely, both, as the etymology of “lethargy” affirms, I believe.

    https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/lethargic

    We are neither sinful nor mentally ill, just sleepy – unconscious, waking up, I suggest.

    Heartfelt and soulfelt thanks, again.

    Tom.

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  12. Hi Tom, Thank you for your comment. I think too, that we can be enlightened now and the obstacle, so to speak, from that awakening is forgetfulness. However, there is also the idea of dependent co-arising, meaning that nothing arises from one single thing. Our forgetfulness is due to many inter-dependent conditions. These conditions are not a sin, nor a mental illness. It is part of the “ISness” of “Humanness”. The main point I wanted to make is that the 5 hindrances could be utilized as a great alternative to the DSM5 for recognizing emotional and behavioral conditions that do not serve that awakening as opposed to pathologizing them. Thanks again Tom for your insights. I hope we all have great strides in our waking up. – With thanks – diane

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  13. Thank you very much, indeed, for this, too, Diane.

    I suspect, in spite of what you say above, that you may agree that “the obstacle IS The Way, too, however?

    I suspect you may agree that our very suffering prompts and forces us to evolve, to remember, to awaken.

    I suspect that just sitting with you in silent presence, I, like many others, could not but experience awakening, remembering, healing.

    I suspect Carl Jung must have realized this at least towards the end of his life, too.

    He may have used dream analysis etc. as you use explorations and explanations of the Hindrances…until the very ISness, I-AMness, presence is discovered to be fully capable of bringing about lasting transformation, awakening, Metanoia, Repentance, Liberation, Salvation.

    “The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed.” – Carl Jung.

    I asked an Irish healer how he had healed, among others, a veterinary colleague of mine of her fibromyalgia.

    Eamon again protested that he did not heal people, but that they healed themselves.

    I asked him how he helped bring this about.

    He replied something very like this:

    “You may need to see them just once.

    Or maybe twice.

    And I sit down with them. Very relaxed. Very relaxed. And nonjudgmental.

    And I listen to them.

    It doesn’t matter what they talk about.

    Just listen.

    And you may need to say a word or two, or maybe nothing, at all.

    Just listen.

    And then. And then..and then. And then I let the light and love of God flow through me.”

    As Eamon spoke that last sentence down the phone to me, I dissolved into tears. Tears of joy, of compassion and of healing, of realization, I suppose. And, later, I realized that Eamon had let the light and love of God flow through him to me just then, of course.

    https://youtu.be/lyUxYflkhzo?si=9ylzlN7HoHijPqYf

    Thich Nhat Hanh: “Deep listening is the kind of listening that can help relieve the suffering of another person. You can call it compassionate listening. You listen with only one purpose: to help him or her to empty his heart.”

    Reading your most remarkable essay, Diane, I constantly was distracted by the thought that….well, “Does Diane or does she not realize that….?!”

    Soon, I sense, Science, too, must realize that there are worlds of difference between being truly listened to, and just believing that one is being listened to…and that we can listen meaningfully to any other entangled particle from any distance to the same effect.

    Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your work, your listening, and your love.

    Tom.

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