In this piece forĀ Aeon, Carlin Flora critiques sociologists’ and psychologists’ attempts to categorize and classify people’s personalities into distinct groups and profiles, advocatingĀ that we instead recognize the fluidity and complexity of our personalities.
“…weāre constantly describing ourselves and others. Sometimes, the stakes are low, as with idle chat, and sometimes they are higher, such as when weāre summing up a potential job candidate or a possible love match for a friend. Writers search for emotional granularity, consequential details and apt metaphors, while sociologists and personality psychologists have come up with sorting tools such as the āBig Fiveā personality traits ā extraversion, neuroticism, agreeableness, openness to experience, and conscientiousness. But if I tell you someone is āa nice-looking middle-aged Asian extravert who is fairly agreeable, neurotic and open-minded, and from the Midwestā you have no idea what sheās really like. You barely have a starting point.
People have habits of speech, mannerisms, a temperament that is at least in part inborn, and even behavioural signatures and routines. But across time and contexts, any of these characteristics can change. We can act against our own proclivities until they arenāt proclivities anymore. Being enclosed in solid, distinct bodies fuels the belief that our personalities must be fully formed and consistent as well. But they arenāt. Everyone from pop-psych authors to business-school professors to astrologers has come up with her own system for sizing up people. If it were possible, wouldnāt one method have prevailed by now? In fact, two recent paradigm-breakingĀ studiesĀ suggestĀ that personality traits can shift slowly yet drastically over time, and quite quickly after therapeutic interventions.”
