It is also possible that some are NOT there to make you feel better.
On the other hand, the bartender and the heroin peddle are there to make you feel better, too.
Making someone “feel better” is generally only effective as a short-term objective. People who set their long-term goals at “making myself feel better” generally don’t have very livable lives.
That does seem to be the message. At least from the incompetents. Just “think different thoughts” and your emotions will change! A bit of magical thinking, there. I mean, in the LONG RUN, it’s probably true, but to make out that a person can just “change thoughts” on command, especially after years of trauma or living in current danger, chronic or acute, is patently ridiculous. There’s a lot of trust building and examining patterns and detecting the purpose of certain behavior/thinking from the client’s viewpoint and a lot of “what ifs” and “Let’s imagines” before anyone gets around to saying something as monumental as “I’ve changed my viewpoint. I don’t need my mother’s constant involvement to survive.” People believe what they believe for a reason. It doesn’t work for a therapist to say, “That’s a bad belief, you need to change it!”
Hard to argue with you there. There are probably a few rare exceptions here and there, most of whom will probably quit early or be driven out by their colleagues.
Nobody is saying the medications are not valid. We’re saying PSYCHIATRY is not valid! The idea of taking a substance to make yourself feel better is as ancient as human history, maybe even older. It’s not an amazing 21st century discovery of the psychiatric profession. The biggest problem is these damned DIAGNOSES, which have no scientific reality but are used to promote certain products and discourage people from exploring their own solutions.
If the drugs work for you, more power to you! This website is not about that. It’s about bringing some kind of sanity back to the world of “mental health treatment,” including stopping psychiatrists from involuntarily forcing people to take these drugs when they do NOT work for the recipient!
CBT as practiced by many often does encourage clients to ignore or minimize or intellectualize social causes of distress. I find it useful in certain contexts, but see it as a tool, not a therapeutic school. It works fantastic for some people in some situations (I use it all the time myself), but there are times when “empowering oneself” has to take a back seat to taking an honest look at what’s going on or has happened in the past. For instance, a domestic abuse victim might learn to “think different thoughts” so they find their abuser’s comments less upsetting. This might be a useful skill, but it does not BEGIN to address the needs of the client. If all we gave our DV victims was CBT, we’d be doing them a gross disservice. Same with folks with big tramua histories. Telling them to “think different thoughts” is a short step from “get over it, you wimp!” And lest you think I’m exaggerating or making this up, several people have reported on MIA that they are told by their therapists that they should “not think of the past” and that processing historical emotions is a waste of time and they need to “Be mindful” and “focus on the present.”
A good therapist can use CBT to get good results when it is appropriate. A bad therapist can use CBT to create an emotionally unsafe environment for their clients and effectively make their “mental health” status worse.
I certainly have no intention of attacking psychiatrists. But you are saying things that are said by psychiatrists but not scientifically accurate. Antipsychotic drugs HAVE been shown to do brain damage, including reduction in grey matter volume, altering the size of the Corpus Collosum, and inducing neurological problems like Parkinsonism and Tardive Dyskinesia. No psychiatrist worth talking to will deny these things are known facts. There are now ads on TV to fight off TD, which is directly stated in the ads to be caused by their “mental health meds.” The idea that antipsychotics offer some protection from brain damage caused by schizophrenia or other “mental illnesses” is a nice concept, but again, I know of no evidence that this is actually true. Can you attach a link to a study or two to show where you’re getting this information?
It is hard sometimes for people who have used the MH system and feel they have benefitted from it to hear from others who feel it has harmed them. I don’t think anyone here wants to upset you about this stuff, but they’re mostly just telling their stories, and I believe they have a right to do that, even if these stories don’t jibe with what you’ve read or heard or been told. And if it causes others to be a little more careful how they engage with the system, I think that’s all to the good. An informed patient has the best outcomes, but our practitioners mostly have conflicts of interest that prevent them from giving out the honest information that everyone needs. A lot of that information is available here, albeit often in anecdotal form, but still, don’t you think folks have a right to tell their stories? If you came on and told YOUR story and someone told you it was “wrong” or was damaging people, how do you think you would feel about it?
It’s worse than that, Molly. They don’t know what they should be aiming at. The drugs hit parts of the brain they ARE intended to hit as well, and THOSE parts of the brain get broken down and stop working properly, too. They’re not quite shooting at random, but the targeted parts of the brain do not heal under their attack. And destroying them isn’t good for the brain, either. It is a poor solution.
I don’t consider this obvious. A person may need PROTECTION, yes, and others may need protection from THEM, but why does “treatment” in the form of enforced drugging necessarily emerge from feeling angry or confused or despairing? How about giving folks a safe place to calm down and some sane people to talk with if they want, plus some food and sleep and the like? Why start with forced drugging as the only “answer,” especially when we see how poor the outcomes are for those experiencing such “treatment” in the long term?
I learned early on that “intellectualization” is just one more coping measure, having its value and its drawbacks, just like every other coping measure. We all need coping measures, including denial, splitting, minimization, and intellectualization, in order to survive. There is nothing wrong with using any of them if they are working for you. The times we have problems is when we learn these measures early in life and come to believe they are our only options in certain situations. Becoming aware of the coping measures we choose and getting a broader range of options in any given situation is a valuable set of lessons. A lot of times, using intellectualization to “block childhood trauma” is the smartest thing to do. There are also times it can get in the way of moving forward. Just like any other coping measure. It is not good or bad in itself, it’s about how/when these coping measures are used that matters. And who is really in a position to judge that other than the person deciding how to “cope?”
The answer is simpler and more grim – they prescribe it to keep them quiet. “Antipsychotics” reduce aggression, so any sign of violence or aggression from an “autistic” kid and out comes the Risperdal or Abilify prescription. Also often used to calm down aggression that’s actually CAUSED by stimulants for “ADHD”. Doesn’t even require a “psychosis diagnosis.” If they’re annoying enough and have a label, they are fair game for antipsychotics.
Not to mention the possible damage to the fetus of continuing SSRIs. There are fairly consistent correlations with birth defects, as well as with “ADHD” behavior later in life, if I remember my research correctly.
Exactly. You see it all the time – an article proves that antidepressants are completely useless for kids and meanwhile increase the suicide rates, but the conclusion is, “We should be careful to make sure that antidepressants are only prescribed when indicated in children.” And they get away with it, because they’re saying what those in power want to hear!
Labeling terms is a very human practice. People come up with words to describe what they observe, and I have no problem with that. It’s the fetishizing of these words into “diagnoses” and “disorders” that upsets me, when the “diagnoses” have no more meaning or validity that saying someone who picks his nose has “excessive digital-nasal insertion disorder.”
I think the interesting question that never gets asked is, why do the “standard mental health” programs continue to get funded despite mountains of evidence that they not only don’t work in the long run, but in many cases cause damage? Kind of a double standard, isn’t there?
There is a difference between using a term to describe something (My husband is an ABUSER) and being DIAGNOSED with something (My husband beats me up because he has “Bipolar Disorder”). One is simply a linguistic means of describing people who have certain traits in common, the other implies some kind of deeper “causal” relationship between these people such that some sort of “treatment” will generally be helpful to all of them. Psychiatry blurs these lines badly, and I believe intentionally, such that people are confused between a description (These children all have trouble paying attention in school and get into trouble) and a diagnosis (all children who have trouble paying attention are suffering from a ‘disorder’ called ‘ADHD’ and there is a ‘treatment’ for this condition). Of course, this sells a lot of drugs, but the confusion does a great deal of damage to our society, as it prevents any real attempts to identify the actual causes in individuals, as well as taking perfectly normal behavior (being distracted when bored to death by the school curriculum or process) and making it into a disease state. But when we get as silly as calling something “Oppositional Defiant Disorder” because a person is oppositional and defiant, it should be obvious to any rational person that these “disorders” are absolute irrational nonsense! Might as well say someone picks their nose because they have “Nose Picking Disorder.” It wouldn’t be any less ridiculous.
What they mean by “stigma” is “any comment suggesting people shouldn’t take all the drugs they are prescribed without question.” The industry creates and exacerbates stigma as a marketing tool. The furthest thing from their minds is to “reduce stigma!”
As long as the peer respite concept is dependent on the larger “mental health system” for approval and monitoring, we will see power being used by those uncomfortable with the idea of peer empowerment to undermine this kind of effort or kill it off. I wish I knew the answer.
It also always seems hypocritical when they expect someone ELSE to prove their drugs cause dependency, assuming safety, while normally we expect drug trials to assume non-safety until proven otherwise. How many drugs have we been told are “not habit forming” and yet later turned out to have horrible addiction profiles? Benzedrine, Valium, Xanax, Oxy, Ativan, SSRIs… the list is pretty long at this point. Why aren’t we making the drug companies prove their drugs are NOT addictive/dependence-forming before they’re allowed to market?
It did seem odd to me that after dismissing the claim that science understands the mind, the IFS approach still “diagnoses” people with “conditions” based on their “understanding” of the mind. Better to just admit it’s a mystery and work with the person in front of us and stop trying to “understand” them separately from their own conceptualization of their own situation.
I would not just say that “patient voices” should be reported on, they should be CENTRAL to any analysis, while doctors’ opinions should be considered secondary. As long as “patient experiences” are of secondary concern, we will continue to have a system that oppresses those it’s supposed to help!
A really fun exercise is to pick a diagnosis and see how many different ways you can “diagnose” someone with the same “disorder” despite having no “symptoms” in common with each other. It’s not very hard, but it’s kind of amusing. Except when you realize people take this nonsense seriously!
From what I understand of recent studies, the scientific consensus is about 30% of people taking antidepressants express finding improvement. When you take the placebo effect into account, that number drops even lower, and if you talk about an ACTIVE placebo, Kirsch puts the effectiveness rating near zero, at least in terms of any kind of significant clinical benefit.
The drugs do DO something (mostly a stimulation effect, with a dampening of emotional reactivity), and some people find that SOMETHING positive for them. And more power to them. But we should remember that some people find marijuana or controlled doses of alcohol or taking DSMO or St. John’s Wort helpful, too. The problem isn’t that some people don’t report benefitting, it’s selling the idea that there are NO harms and that EVERYONE who is feeling depressed needs some, and even worse, that people who have adverse reactions or simply don’t improve are “treatment resistant” or are being dishonest!!!! Just because a person or persons report they like this and it helps them feel better is no reason to create a false narrative and make people who don’t feel such a benefit into some kind of monsters for “preventing effective treatment”!
I’ll just remind everyone here that “bad science” isn’t really science at all. It is mostly attempts to use a scientific veneer to justify things that REAL science doesn’t support. The way to tell the difference is what happens when real science comes out with data that contradict the “opinion leaders.” If they attack the data or those who promote or share it, they’re not involved with “bad science.” They’re involved in marketing!
But you ARE right, we do have to engage with anyone who is a real ally and not expect total agreement, except on the point that psychiatry as currently imagined needs to GO!
To be clear, I as moderator am not in the business of deciding what content or claims are accurate or inaccurate, thank the Lord! All I do is make sure that the comments fit the Posting Guidelines. There is no censorship on any kind of content-based grounds, and people are welcome to say more or less whatever they want, with very few exceptions regarding taking over the site with off-topic conversations that don’t advance the purpose of the website. It is the job of the Community at large to add their feedback and “correct” anything that seems exaggerated or unproven, just as you are attempting to do.
MIA needs to be judged on the articles. No website anywhere I know of is judged by the comments people make on the articles. I assume “professional” people understand this and act accordingly.
While I agree with your sentiments, having been “behind enemy lines” for a number of years, the problem is that the workers, while some struggle with the ethics of their situation, also have the power to easily pass on their frustrations and “moral injuries” to the very people they’re supposed to be caring for. The “consumers” or recipients or victims of their care have no such luxury. It is imperative that those working in the system who DO recognize what’s happening fight to change it, even if it means losing their jobs. Saying, “I had to harm them, I would have lost my job otherwise” is very similar to saying “I was only following orders.” Not a valid ethical “out” for someone who really understands the harm being done.
I always found “Behavioral Health” to be a bizarre term. How does behavior have “health?” Though I guess it provides a somewhat more honest glimpse into where these industries are really coming from. If we were healing “brain disorders,” wouldn’t it be “brain health?” No, it’s about controlling BEHAVIOR based on what Those In Charge think is “appropriate!” Not much science involved, but a lot of force and lies and manipulation!
Absolutely. No kid would voluntarily agree to do what is expected of kids in school. Or very few. It is absolutely bizarre to expect them to do so. The ones who act out just have more courage than I did!
Makes perfect sense, actually. Want objectivity? Talk to a robot! Healing comes from real interactions with real humans who are being honest and straight and care about each other.
I think he’s saying that the people RUNNING the system exhibit “psychopathic” tendencies, which include lack of empathy, willingness to commit crimes to accomplish desired goals, willingness to lie, cheat or steal to get what they want, sometimes even a certain perverse enjoyment in watching others suffer. Overall, it speaks to a massive need to control others’ lives at their expense, and a lack of any concern for the welfare of anyone but themselves. This is a very rough and incomplete description, but such people are only rarely ever “diagnosed” with any kind of “Mental illness,” but rather tend to skate through life making trouble for others and getting others blamed for things they themselves have arranged. Those who are “caught” are more likely to be in jail than the “mental health” system, but plenty such people get into positions of power in businesses or government agencies where they have enough control to harm people while being protected from any kind of consequences. Of course, the world of psychiatry provides many such opportunities, and it would hardly be surprising if that field attracted a disproportionate number of psychopathic individuals, some of whom may be actually directing the course of the organization/profession.
I was agonizingly bored in school! Wanted to poke my eyes out with a fork! I understand why kids act out, just to have SOMETHING interesting going on! Unfortunately, I was too scared to take those risks, but I sure thought about it!
I agree. The only therapists of any value are the ones who recognize that there is no such thing as “professional objectivity.” In order to be truly helpful, we have to understand that everything we do is at all times influenced by our own desires and motivations, and that we are only aware of a small percentage of them. It requires “constant vigilance,” not some fantasy belief that professional training somehow cancels out subjectivity!
I think you hit on something EXTREMELY important! It is those wounded by the abusers in society who are “diagnosed” and sent to “therapy,” while the perpetrators walk around harming others. Therapy at its best is about helping those harmed cope with the damage and the horrible awareness that abusers are running the show. I was fortunate to have a caring and competent therapist, so it’s very hard for me to even imagine what would happen to me if my therapist had joined forces with those authority figures responsible for the damage!!!!
Quite so. Trust is earned, it is given entirely at the discretion of the “truster.” Expecting someone to trust you because of your position is pretty massive authoritarianism.
I will suggest here that per the scientific method, we assume something is NOT effective until it is proven to be effective. The “null hypothesis” in this case is that antidepressants do not reduce suicidal thoughts or behavior. If such controversy and conflicting studies continue to exist 30-40 years after ADs were introduced, I think we can conclude at this point that they DO NOT reduce suicidal thoughts and behavior.
Of course, in the “antidepressants cause suicidal thoughts and behaviors,” the “null hypothesis is that they don’t. However, the fact there is a Black Box warning on all drugs impacting serotonin suggests there is enough evidence to concern people about their safety, especially in the young. Since there is almost zero evidence of any AD effectiveness in youth, and literally none in young children, even a chance of increasing suicide rates ought to be enough to eliminate these completely from the psychiatrist’s toolbox, at least for children.
At a minimum, the evidence to date is more than sufficient to conclude that antidepressants do not decrease the suicide rate for any subgroup of identified “depressed” people. The fact that certain “researchers” and “thought leaders” choose to cherrypick the studies they like should not divert us from this conclusion. Any decent review of the literature shows no positive effect, and many show possible increases in suicide rates, even in studies involving people who were screened for suicidality before starting. It’s not really that much in dispute, except for people who want to believe otherwise.
It has always infuriated me when therapists expect their clients to automatically trust them! Don’t they get that this is Step One of any decent helping process? I used to work with foster kids, and I’d often say to them, “I suspect you don’t trust me. That’s pretty smart. I wouldn’t trust me, either – you have no idea who I am or what my agenda is! And I don’t automatically trust you, either. I’m hoping as we get to know each other, we could develop some trust.” Or words to that effect. Oddly enough, I managed to earn the trust of many of them. I wonder why?
I agree with you for the most part. I would never have gotten where I am from psychotherapy. I did have a very good therapist and it was important in getting me started in seeing the limitations of my upbringing. But without Buddhism, meditation, exercise, a job that challenged me to overcome some of my anxieties, the support of important people (including my wife), an exploration of a wide range of spiritual practices, self-help books, and some good old fashioned hard work, I’d have never gotten anywhere. And from what I understand, the training for therapists these days has deteriorated, and they spend time studying the DSM diagnoses but don’t bother with little things like unconscious motivations or the long-term impact of trauma or domestic abuse dynamics. So I don’t want to deny that psychotherapy can play a role for some folks, but it needs to be one who really GETS what s/he is doing, and is empowering of the client to pursue his/her goals. My therapist told me her goal was for ME to become my own therapist and not need her any more. Not every therapist has such goals!
Anyway, I think you’re right, the best even the best therapist can offer (and as I see it, most of them aren’t very good!) is to help you set your feet on a different path. Where you end up going is TOTALLY up to you, and there are as many ways to find the path as there are humans on the Earth!
Forget about “borderline personality disorder” or any other of their anti-scientific labels. What does she really need? What behavior or issues does SHE think are creating problems for her? What does SHE want to be different? What does SHE think would be a good approach?
Usually, people who get branded with the “Borderline” label are those who have difficulty trusting others in relationships. See if you can talk to her about trust. Most are also people who have had traumatic experiences early in their lives. What kind of historical trauma is she still dealing with?
She needs support and understanding, not more labels. Psychotherapy CAN be helpful but only if you find the right person who can create a safe place for her to explore her life and what she wants to do with it. Another person bullying her around and telling her “what’s wrong with you” and what she needs to do will not be helpful. I don’t know what the best way to go about it is, but it starts with NOT accepting the labeling process and find some other people, professionals or not, who agree with you and are willing to help.
Nah. Psychiatry is a religion of greed selectively cherrypicking science to further its own economic ends. Science doesn’t enter into it, except as a red herring to distract from what’s actually happening. Proof is, any science contradicting their narrative is attacked and/or buried. There’s exactly nothing scientific about psychiatry.
Sorry, but psychiatry does NOT rely on “common sense.” Common sense dictates that people who have been emotionally distraught need to talk to someone. Anyone who has witnessed a car accident or experienced an upsetting incident has an immediate urge to tell their story to another human being, who helps best by listening. There is nothing common sensical about the idea that “mental disorders are caused by faulty brains.” That is a very non-intuitive idea that has been sold and sold HARD to the public through massive PR campaigns and through TV and movies and other media methods.
Common sense says that psychiatry is BS. It is only the pretense of “science” coming from the mouths of pseudo-“doctors” claiming “special knowledge” that allows people to actually invalidate their common sense and believe this unscientific and intuitively offensive nonsense!
I would also say that the training for “talk therapy” has deteriorated massively while classes on “diagnosing” with the DSM are hugely on the rise. I often wonder from talking to them whether today’s clinicians have ever even been introduced to the idea of subconscious motivation? They get trained that PTSD exists but to they get any kind of training on what to DO that might be helpful to a traumatized person (or what NOT to do?) Once one’s had “therapy” with a person who doesn’t know what they’re doing and makes things worse, the idea that “therapy” could work is canceled pretty much forever. Which leaves people with very few options!
Quite so. When the experimenters have no objective means to separate those “in” the group from those “not in” the group, the experiment is DOA. Which applies to pretty much all “mental health” studies, except perhaps those measuring adverse effects of the “treatments!”
You are confusing an observable problem and a workable solution.
Of course, no one here denies that people live on the street and talk to themselves. Believe it or not, A LOT of those people are “taking their meds” and still doing that, or have tried the “psychiatric treatment” path and it has failed miserably for them. Did you realize that the likelihood of recovering from “schizophrenia” is now a LOT WORSE than it was in the 1950s, before the “drug era” began? Did you realize that the likelihood of recovering is MUCH HIGHER in countries like Nigeria, Columbia, and other “developing countries” where “medication” is used far less frequently? Were you aware of the fact that a lot of people having first episode psychosis don’t have another, but that the likelihood of spontaneous improvement has REDUCED since psychiatric drugs are in regular use? Have you learned yet that the average “seriously mentally ill” person dies an average of 20-25 years YOUNGER than the rest of the population, and that the drugs used to “treat” these “illnesses” are largely responsible for many of these early deaths?
The social myth is that there are magic drugs that make everyone all better, and if only the “homeless” and the “mentally ill” would follow their doctors’ instructions, they’d be “normal” people working jobs and going to college and raising families, just like on the ads on TV or the movies and TV shows where someone goes “off their meds” and crashes and burns, but as soon as they’re back “on their meds,” they’re totally fine again. The industries have worked hard to create this impression, but if you can put this myth aside for a moment and actually READ some of the stories presented below, you might start to realize that it’s not such a pretty picture.
Psych drugs do seem to be helpful to a certain percentage of the population without serious damage to their quality of life, and more power to them. But the idea that doctors have some great “treatments” that make MOST people “normal” again if only they do as they’re told is completely false. The bulk of “seriously mentally ill” people who are in “compliance” with their treatment plans are poor, unemployed (on disability), and living lives that most of us would consider extremely low in quality. Those who do better often do so despite their “treatment plans” and “providers” rather than because of them, or at least have little to no support for improving their life quality from those supposedly “treating” them besides the drugs they are prescribed. Considering the massive adverse effects most experience, ranging from involuntary movements to severely blunted emotions and motivation to loss of sexual function to enormous weight gain to diabetes and heart disease, it might seem that living on the streets is hardly any worse to some recipients. And that’s not even mentioning the tremendous loss of autonomy most experience, being constantly monitored and told what to do and threatened with incarceration, framed as “hospitalization,” if they step out of line or their “symptoms” increase.
It is very easy to judge if you’re not someone who has had these experiences yourself. Why don’t you suspend the judgment for a while and try reading some of the many stories here about what has happened to people here who “complied” with their “treatment plans” and ended up devastated? There’s a LOT more to the story than you seem to have heard to this point!
The key question would be whether one could distinguish in some objective way between “biological” and “situational depression.” Of course, no one has come close to doing that, and they don’t even bother trying any longer. It’s just “let’s try these drugs out and see what happens.” No pretension in reality of any kind of scientific diagnostic process. But as long as the big money keeps coming in, no one has an incentive to look deeper.
You are assuming that treatment plans mandated by “healthcare professionals” are going to be helpful. Read some of the stories below and you may begin to question that assumption. Saying something “must be dealt with one way or another” does not mean that the one way currently being used is the best approach.
It’s hard to see why anyone needs to do a study to “prove” this. Shouldn’t it be the job of those claiming this “disorder” has validity to prove it does, rather than the other way around???
Maybe just start with the person where they are at, and stop worrying about whether they “fit” the PTSD “diagnosis,” and instead start asking questions and getting to know them on a real level and finding out where they’re at and what they really need?
But many Deaf people in my observation also DON’T view themselves as disabled. In my experience, there is a wide range of ways people view their Deafness, and it would be wise for those not a part of that community not to speak for “them.”
Where can you have come up with such statistics? As far as I know, there is no objective description or measurement of a “neurotypical” brain that is possible. So a “neurodivergent” brain, while I think can be a legitimate identity to choose, is not a scientifically observable phenomenon, and as a result, its frequency of occurrence is not something we can claim to know.
I personally find the term “neurotypical” to be to some extent demeaning, as it seems to imply that I have somehow gotten a “normal” brain and that therefore any struggles I may have are of less significance than the “neurodiverse” brain. I can tell you with absolute certainty there is nothing “typical” about how I have experienced life and I had plenty of struggles in school and elsewhere, even though my particular “brain” (if that is indeed the variable in question) allowed me to be quite successful in the educational environment and to scrape by socially, “it” has provided plenty of challenges in non-academic arenas. Of course, you could now decide (or I could) that I really am NOT neurotypical, that I’m “neurodiverse,” but again, that would be a decision of identity that I (or someone else) made, and not one that can be verified in any scientific manner.
I don’t believe there are “neurotypical” brains out there – my observation is that everyone’s brain is different and everyone has certain things in common, and our society is highly intolerant of certain personality characteristics or behavior, which leads to bigotry and discrimination against certain people who don’t BEHAVIORALLY fit what is expected, whether because of their brains or some other reason. Does neurology factor into that? No doubt. But until there is a means of drawing some kind of objective line between the “neurotypical” and the “neurodiverse,” I’m afraid these terms remain social constructs without any objective meanings. Like I said, everyone should feel free to identify themselves as they wish, but I’d appreciate you and others not choosing MY identity for me!
Quite so. It is never the fault of the practitioners – the client or the “disorder” is resisting! So how is success ever to be defined, if you can’t fail except as a result of something they have no control over!
There are most likely some in Turkey who know the truth. But it may be hard to find each other. Most countries are dominated by people who are “true believers” in psychiatry and tend to attack and humiliate those who don’t agree with them.
It may be that you are the one who will have to educate others about what you’ve learned. We are all in the minority!
My point is that having a goal over which you have no direct control is a setup for failure, in my experience. Empathy in particular is VERY difficult to teach, especially to an adult. Not saying it could not happen, but I’d be more likely to look at something more along the lines of not engaging when negative stuff is coming from her, drilling how to convey the necessary message most effectively, and how to set good boundaries when she becomes abusive. All things the person himself can control. I’ve seen way too many people spend way too much time trying to “get their viewpoint across” or “help him see how he’s hurting me,” etc., with absolutely no success and enormous frustration. I recommend setting goals that a person can accomplish, regardless of whether someone else chooses to “understand” or not!
That DOES make a lot of sense. My only caution is that “depression” is not caused by any one thing. But testing for THIS particular thing could save a LOT of trouble and suffering for a certain identifiable subset of the population!
A goal of making one’s WIFE more compassionate is a pretty inappropriate therapy goal! You can’t make other people compassionate! That seems like his first problem!
I believe the link goes both ways – psychological trauma is associated with increasing inflammation and immune response. Autoimmune diseases are more common with people who have been abused, in a dose-dependent manner, as I recall.
The question is, how can anyone POSSIBLY determine where such a “line” lies, or if it even exists? And if we DON’T objectively define what it is, then we get arbitrary and subjective rules, leading to “diagnostic drift” toward whatever makes more money for the providers and less trouble for those in control of society’s institutions.
And why do we need to define such a line anyway? Why can’t we simply say that “those who suffer need and deserve support” and provide it without pretending there is something physiological going on? Now, if there IS something physical that is off, like low thyroid, anemia, sleep problems leading to depression or hyperactivity, or whatever, then THAT is what should be treated, not “depression” or “anxiety.”
I’d really be interested in knowing why you think such a line can be and/or needs to be drawn to be able to provide full support to those who are suffering?
It is also possible that some are NOT there to make you feel better.
On the other hand, the bartender and the heroin peddle are there to make you feel better, too.
Making someone “feel better” is generally only effective as a short-term objective. People who set their long-term goals at “making myself feel better” generally don’t have very livable lives.
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Wow, that is an incredibly sad story! It makes me angry just to read about it!
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That does seem to be the message. At least from the incompetents. Just “think different thoughts” and your emotions will change! A bit of magical thinking, there. I mean, in the LONG RUN, it’s probably true, but to make out that a person can just “change thoughts” on command, especially after years of trauma or living in current danger, chronic or acute, is patently ridiculous. There’s a lot of trust building and examining patterns and detecting the purpose of certain behavior/thinking from the client’s viewpoint and a lot of “what ifs” and “Let’s imagines” before anyone gets around to saying something as monumental as “I’ve changed my viewpoint. I don’t need my mother’s constant involvement to survive.” People believe what they believe for a reason. It doesn’t work for a therapist to say, “That’s a bad belief, you need to change it!”
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Hard to argue with you there. There are probably a few rare exceptions here and there, most of whom will probably quit early or be driven out by their colleagues.
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Nobody is saying the medications are not valid. We’re saying PSYCHIATRY is not valid! The idea of taking a substance to make yourself feel better is as ancient as human history, maybe even older. It’s not an amazing 21st century discovery of the psychiatric profession. The biggest problem is these damned DIAGNOSES, which have no scientific reality but are used to promote certain products and discourage people from exploring their own solutions.
If the drugs work for you, more power to you! This website is not about that. It’s about bringing some kind of sanity back to the world of “mental health treatment,” including stopping psychiatrists from involuntarily forcing people to take these drugs when they do NOT work for the recipient!
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CBT as practiced by many often does encourage clients to ignore or minimize or intellectualize social causes of distress. I find it useful in certain contexts, but see it as a tool, not a therapeutic school. It works fantastic for some people in some situations (I use it all the time myself), but there are times when “empowering oneself” has to take a back seat to taking an honest look at what’s going on or has happened in the past. For instance, a domestic abuse victim might learn to “think different thoughts” so they find their abuser’s comments less upsetting. This might be a useful skill, but it does not BEGIN to address the needs of the client. If all we gave our DV victims was CBT, we’d be doing them a gross disservice. Same with folks with big tramua histories. Telling them to “think different thoughts” is a short step from “get over it, you wimp!” And lest you think I’m exaggerating or making this up, several people have reported on MIA that they are told by their therapists that they should “not think of the past” and that processing historical emotions is a waste of time and they need to “Be mindful” and “focus on the present.”
A good therapist can use CBT to get good results when it is appropriate. A bad therapist can use CBT to create an emotionally unsafe environment for their clients and effectively make their “mental health” status worse.
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Hi, Molly,
I certainly have no intention of attacking psychiatrists. But you are saying things that are said by psychiatrists but not scientifically accurate. Antipsychotic drugs HAVE been shown to do brain damage, including reduction in grey matter volume, altering the size of the Corpus Collosum, and inducing neurological problems like Parkinsonism and Tardive Dyskinesia. No psychiatrist worth talking to will deny these things are known facts. There are now ads on TV to fight off TD, which is directly stated in the ads to be caused by their “mental health meds.” The idea that antipsychotics offer some protection from brain damage caused by schizophrenia or other “mental illnesses” is a nice concept, but again, I know of no evidence that this is actually true. Can you attach a link to a study or two to show where you’re getting this information?
It is hard sometimes for people who have used the MH system and feel they have benefitted from it to hear from others who feel it has harmed them. I don’t think anyone here wants to upset you about this stuff, but they’re mostly just telling their stories, and I believe they have a right to do that, even if these stories don’t jibe with what you’ve read or heard or been told. And if it causes others to be a little more careful how they engage with the system, I think that’s all to the good. An informed patient has the best outcomes, but our practitioners mostly have conflicts of interest that prevent them from giving out the honest information that everyone needs. A lot of that information is available here, albeit often in anecdotal form, but still, don’t you think folks have a right to tell their stories? If you came on and told YOUR story and someone told you it was “wrong” or was damaging people, how do you think you would feel about it?
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It’s worse than that, Molly. They don’t know what they should be aiming at. The drugs hit parts of the brain they ARE intended to hit as well, and THOSE parts of the brain get broken down and stop working properly, too. They’re not quite shooting at random, but the targeted parts of the brain do not heal under their attack. And destroying them isn’t good for the brain, either. It is a poor solution.
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I don’t consider this obvious. A person may need PROTECTION, yes, and others may need protection from THEM, but why does “treatment” in the form of enforced drugging necessarily emerge from feeling angry or confused or despairing? How about giving folks a safe place to calm down and some sane people to talk with if they want, plus some food and sleep and the like? Why start with forced drugging as the only “answer,” especially when we see how poor the outcomes are for those experiencing such “treatment” in the long term?
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I learned early on that “intellectualization” is just one more coping measure, having its value and its drawbacks, just like every other coping measure. We all need coping measures, including denial, splitting, minimization, and intellectualization, in order to survive. There is nothing wrong with using any of them if they are working for you. The times we have problems is when we learn these measures early in life and come to believe they are our only options in certain situations. Becoming aware of the coping measures we choose and getting a broader range of options in any given situation is a valuable set of lessons. A lot of times, using intellectualization to “block childhood trauma” is the smartest thing to do. There are also times it can get in the way of moving forward. Just like any other coping measure. It is not good or bad in itself, it’s about how/when these coping measures are used that matters. And who is really in a position to judge that other than the person deciding how to “cope?”
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Thank you for a beautiful post!
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The answer is simpler and more grim – they prescribe it to keep them quiet. “Antipsychotics” reduce aggression, so any sign of violence or aggression from an “autistic” kid and out comes the Risperdal or Abilify prescription. Also often used to calm down aggression that’s actually CAUSED by stimulants for “ADHD”. Doesn’t even require a “psychosis diagnosis.” If they’re annoying enough and have a label, they are fair game for antipsychotics.
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One can survive on a bit less than half a liver. The liver is the one organ of the body that regrows itself. Thank the Lord in our case!
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Yeah, but who would want them if they actually told the truth about the drugs?
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There is always an excuse, no matter how much damage they manage to do. Zero responsibility!
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Well, but the liver GROWS BACK! So really, no harm no foul!
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But don’t worry, you don’t need both kidneys to live…
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Not to mention the possible damage to the fetus of continuing SSRIs. There are fairly consistent correlations with birth defects, as well as with “ADHD” behavior later in life, if I remember my research correctly.
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Exactly. You see it all the time – an article proves that antidepressants are completely useless for kids and meanwhile increase the suicide rates, but the conclusion is, “We should be careful to make sure that antidepressants are only prescribed when indicated in children.” And they get away with it, because they’re saying what those in power want to hear!
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Labeling terms is a very human practice. People come up with words to describe what they observe, and I have no problem with that. It’s the fetishizing of these words into “diagnoses” and “disorders” that upsets me, when the “diagnoses” have no more meaning or validity that saying someone who picks his nose has “excessive digital-nasal insertion disorder.”
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I think the interesting question that never gets asked is, why do the “standard mental health” programs continue to get funded despite mountains of evidence that they not only don’t work in the long run, but in many cases cause damage? Kind of a double standard, isn’t there?
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Even the Zen Masters sometimes have to resort to a slap in the face!
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There is a difference between using a term to describe something (My husband is an ABUSER) and being DIAGNOSED with something (My husband beats me up because he has “Bipolar Disorder”). One is simply a linguistic means of describing people who have certain traits in common, the other implies some kind of deeper “causal” relationship between these people such that some sort of “treatment” will generally be helpful to all of them. Psychiatry blurs these lines badly, and I believe intentionally, such that people are confused between a description (These children all have trouble paying attention in school and get into trouble) and a diagnosis (all children who have trouble paying attention are suffering from a ‘disorder’ called ‘ADHD’ and there is a ‘treatment’ for this condition). Of course, this sells a lot of drugs, but the confusion does a great deal of damage to our society, as it prevents any real attempts to identify the actual causes in individuals, as well as taking perfectly normal behavior (being distracted when bored to death by the school curriculum or process) and making it into a disease state. But when we get as silly as calling something “Oppositional Defiant Disorder” because a person is oppositional and defiant, it should be obvious to any rational person that these “disorders” are absolute irrational nonsense! Might as well say someone picks their nose because they have “Nose Picking Disorder.” It wouldn’t be any less ridiculous.
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What they mean by “stigma” is “any comment suggesting people shouldn’t take all the drugs they are prescribed without question.” The industry creates and exacerbates stigma as a marketing tool. The furthest thing from their minds is to “reduce stigma!”
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As long as the peer respite concept is dependent on the larger “mental health system” for approval and monitoring, we will see power being used by those uncomfortable with the idea of peer empowerment to undermine this kind of effort or kill it off. I wish I knew the answer.
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I do agree with you there!
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What, you’re arguing to be objective and scientifically honest about these things? Radical concept!
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It also always seems hypocritical when they expect someone ELSE to prove their drugs cause dependency, assuming safety, while normally we expect drug trials to assume non-safety until proven otherwise. How many drugs have we been told are “not habit forming” and yet later turned out to have horrible addiction profiles? Benzedrine, Valium, Xanax, Oxy, Ativan, SSRIs… the list is pretty long at this point. Why aren’t we making the drug companies prove their drugs are NOT addictive/dependence-forming before they’re allowed to market?
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It did seem odd to me that after dismissing the claim that science understands the mind, the IFS approach still “diagnoses” people with “conditions” based on their “understanding” of the mind. Better to just admit it’s a mystery and work with the person in front of us and stop trying to “understand” them separately from their own conceptualization of their own situation.
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Despite there being scant evidence that antidepressants are of any use in the teen population, and ZERO evidence they are helpful to younger children.
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I would not just say that “patient voices” should be reported on, they should be CENTRAL to any analysis, while doctors’ opinions should be considered secondary. As long as “patient experiences” are of secondary concern, we will continue to have a system that oppresses those it’s supposed to help!
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An excellent and concise argument against the very concept of “mental illness,” let alone a “professional” approach to “treating it!”
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A really fun exercise is to pick a diagnosis and see how many different ways you can “diagnose” someone with the same “disorder” despite having no “symptoms” in common with each other. It’s not very hard, but it’s kind of amusing. Except when you realize people take this nonsense seriously!
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Of course, the fact that “treated” people die one to two decades earlier than expected IS a bit of a clue…
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There is literally almost no accountability for psychiatric or “mental health” professionals.
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If media was giving out wrong information, where was psychiatry telling everyone they got the wrong idea? Can you say “Collusion,” kids?
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ABSOLUTELY!!!!
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OMG, that TRULY sounds like torture! How can anyone see that as “treatment” or the outcome as “positive!”
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Translation: “Quit annoying us!”
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From what I understand of recent studies, the scientific consensus is about 30% of people taking antidepressants express finding improvement. When you take the placebo effect into account, that number drops even lower, and if you talk about an ACTIVE placebo, Kirsch puts the effectiveness rating near zero, at least in terms of any kind of significant clinical benefit.
The drugs do DO something (mostly a stimulation effect, with a dampening of emotional reactivity), and some people find that SOMETHING positive for them. And more power to them. But we should remember that some people find marijuana or controlled doses of alcohol or taking DSMO or St. John’s Wort helpful, too. The problem isn’t that some people don’t report benefitting, it’s selling the idea that there are NO harms and that EVERYONE who is feeling depressed needs some, and even worse, that people who have adverse reactions or simply don’t improve are “treatment resistant” or are being dishonest!!!! Just because a person or persons report they like this and it helps them feel better is no reason to create a false narrative and make people who don’t feel such a benefit into some kind of monsters for “preventing effective treatment”!
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I’ll just remind everyone here that “bad science” isn’t really science at all. It is mostly attempts to use a scientific veneer to justify things that REAL science doesn’t support. The way to tell the difference is what happens when real science comes out with data that contradict the “opinion leaders.” If they attack the data or those who promote or share it, they’re not involved with “bad science.” They’re involved in marketing!
But you ARE right, we do have to engage with anyone who is a real ally and not expect total agreement, except on the point that psychiatry as currently imagined needs to GO!
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Don’t sweat it! I get what you’re saying!
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To be clear, I as moderator am not in the business of deciding what content or claims are accurate or inaccurate, thank the Lord! All I do is make sure that the comments fit the Posting Guidelines. There is no censorship on any kind of content-based grounds, and people are welcome to say more or less whatever they want, with very few exceptions regarding taking over the site with off-topic conversations that don’t advance the purpose of the website. It is the job of the Community at large to add their feedback and “correct” anything that seems exaggerated or unproven, just as you are attempting to do.
MIA needs to be judged on the articles. No website anywhere I know of is judged by the comments people make on the articles. I assume “professional” people understand this and act accordingly.
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While I agree with your sentiments, having been “behind enemy lines” for a number of years, the problem is that the workers, while some struggle with the ethics of their situation, also have the power to easily pass on their frustrations and “moral injuries” to the very people they’re supposed to be caring for. The “consumers” or recipients or victims of their care have no such luxury. It is imperative that those working in the system who DO recognize what’s happening fight to change it, even if it means losing their jobs. Saying, “I had to harm them, I would have lost my job otherwise” is very similar to saying “I was only following orders.” Not a valid ethical “out” for someone who really understands the harm being done.
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I always found “Behavioral Health” to be a bizarre term. How does behavior have “health?” Though I guess it provides a somewhat more honest glimpse into where these industries are really coming from. If we were healing “brain disorders,” wouldn’t it be “brain health?” No, it’s about controlling BEHAVIOR based on what Those In Charge think is “appropriate!” Not much science involved, but a lot of force and lies and manipulation!
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Absolutely. No kid would voluntarily agree to do what is expected of kids in school. Or very few. It is absolutely bizarre to expect them to do so. The ones who act out just have more courage than I did!
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Makes perfect sense, actually. Want objectivity? Talk to a robot! Healing comes from real interactions with real humans who are being honest and straight and care about each other.
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I think he’s saying that the people RUNNING the system exhibit “psychopathic” tendencies, which include lack of empathy, willingness to commit crimes to accomplish desired goals, willingness to lie, cheat or steal to get what they want, sometimes even a certain perverse enjoyment in watching others suffer. Overall, it speaks to a massive need to control others’ lives at their expense, and a lack of any concern for the welfare of anyone but themselves. This is a very rough and incomplete description, but such people are only rarely ever “diagnosed” with any kind of “Mental illness,” but rather tend to skate through life making trouble for others and getting others blamed for things they themselves have arranged. Those who are “caught” are more likely to be in jail than the “mental health” system, but plenty such people get into positions of power in businesses or government agencies where they have enough control to harm people while being protected from any kind of consequences. Of course, the world of psychiatry provides many such opportunities, and it would hardly be surprising if that field attracted a disproportionate number of psychopathic individuals, some of whom may be actually directing the course of the organization/profession.
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I was agonizingly bored in school! Wanted to poke my eyes out with a fork! I understand why kids act out, just to have SOMETHING interesting going on! Unfortunately, I was too scared to take those risks, but I sure thought about it!
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And yet so not surprising!
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I agree. The only therapists of any value are the ones who recognize that there is no such thing as “professional objectivity.” In order to be truly helpful, we have to understand that everything we do is at all times influenced by our own desires and motivations, and that we are only aware of a small percentage of them. It requires “constant vigilance,” not some fantasy belief that professional training somehow cancels out subjectivity!
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I think you hit on something EXTREMELY important! It is those wounded by the abusers in society who are “diagnosed” and sent to “therapy,” while the perpetrators walk around harming others. Therapy at its best is about helping those harmed cope with the damage and the horrible awareness that abusers are running the show. I was fortunate to have a caring and competent therapist, so it’s very hard for me to even imagine what would happen to me if my therapist had joined forces with those authority figures responsible for the damage!!!!
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Disgusting!!!! I wish I were surprised!
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Any measure that could help the CAREGIVERS, in most cases. Most of it does not help the clients/patients.
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And GOOD FOR YOU for standing up for yourself! Your last sentence it to me the true key to sanity!
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Apparently, it’s OK with the prescriber that you die, as long as you are “compliant” with your regimen!
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Thanks!
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Quite so. Trust is earned, it is given entirely at the discretion of the “truster.” Expecting someone to trust you because of your position is pretty massive authoritarianism.
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I will suggest here that per the scientific method, we assume something is NOT effective until it is proven to be effective. The “null hypothesis” in this case is that antidepressants do not reduce suicidal thoughts or behavior. If such controversy and conflicting studies continue to exist 30-40 years after ADs were introduced, I think we can conclude at this point that they DO NOT reduce suicidal thoughts and behavior.
Of course, in the “antidepressants cause suicidal thoughts and behaviors,” the “null hypothesis is that they don’t. However, the fact there is a Black Box warning on all drugs impacting serotonin suggests there is enough evidence to concern people about their safety, especially in the young. Since there is almost zero evidence of any AD effectiveness in youth, and literally none in young children, even a chance of increasing suicide rates ought to be enough to eliminate these completely from the psychiatrist’s toolbox, at least for children.
At a minimum, the evidence to date is more than sufficient to conclude that antidepressants do not decrease the suicide rate for any subgroup of identified “depressed” people. The fact that certain “researchers” and “thought leaders” choose to cherrypick the studies they like should not divert us from this conclusion. Any decent review of the literature shows no positive effect, and many show possible increases in suicide rates, even in studies involving people who were screened for suicidality before starting. It’s not really that much in dispute, except for people who want to believe otherwise.
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It has always infuriated me when therapists expect their clients to automatically trust them! Don’t they get that this is Step One of any decent helping process? I used to work with foster kids, and I’d often say to them, “I suspect you don’t trust me. That’s pretty smart. I wouldn’t trust me, either – you have no idea who I am or what my agenda is! And I don’t automatically trust you, either. I’m hoping as we get to know each other, we could develop some trust.” Or words to that effect. Oddly enough, I managed to earn the trust of many of them. I wonder why?
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I agree with you for the most part. I would never have gotten where I am from psychotherapy. I did have a very good therapist and it was important in getting me started in seeing the limitations of my upbringing. But without Buddhism, meditation, exercise, a job that challenged me to overcome some of my anxieties, the support of important people (including my wife), an exploration of a wide range of spiritual practices, self-help books, and some good old fashioned hard work, I’d have never gotten anywhere. And from what I understand, the training for therapists these days has deteriorated, and they spend time studying the DSM diagnoses but don’t bother with little things like unconscious motivations or the long-term impact of trauma or domestic abuse dynamics. So I don’t want to deny that psychotherapy can play a role for some folks, but it needs to be one who really GETS what s/he is doing, and is empowering of the client to pursue his/her goals. My therapist told me her goal was for ME to become my own therapist and not need her any more. Not every therapist has such goals!
Anyway, I think you’re right, the best even the best therapist can offer (and as I see it, most of them aren’t very good!) is to help you set your feet on a different path. Where you end up going is TOTALLY up to you, and there are as many ways to find the path as there are humans on the Earth!
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Good thing for him you were around!
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Forget about “borderline personality disorder” or any other of their anti-scientific labels. What does she really need? What behavior or issues does SHE think are creating problems for her? What does SHE want to be different? What does SHE think would be a good approach?
Usually, people who get branded with the “Borderline” label are those who have difficulty trusting others in relationships. See if you can talk to her about trust. Most are also people who have had traumatic experiences early in their lives. What kind of historical trauma is she still dealing with?
She needs support and understanding, not more labels. Psychotherapy CAN be helpful but only if you find the right person who can create a safe place for her to explore her life and what she wants to do with it. Another person bullying her around and telling her “what’s wrong with you” and what she needs to do will not be helpful. I don’t know what the best way to go about it is, but it starts with NOT accepting the labeling process and find some other people, professionals or not, who agree with you and are willing to help.
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🙂
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Nah. Psychiatry is a religion of greed selectively cherrypicking science to further its own economic ends. Science doesn’t enter into it, except as a red herring to distract from what’s actually happening. Proof is, any science contradicting their narrative is attacked and/or buried. There’s exactly nothing scientific about psychiatry.
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Is the veiled reference to Big Pharma intentional or accidental? “Patently!” It’s the patents that have made it so absurd!
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Sorry, but psychiatry does NOT rely on “common sense.” Common sense dictates that people who have been emotionally distraught need to talk to someone. Anyone who has witnessed a car accident or experienced an upsetting incident has an immediate urge to tell their story to another human being, who helps best by listening. There is nothing common sensical about the idea that “mental disorders are caused by faulty brains.” That is a very non-intuitive idea that has been sold and sold HARD to the public through massive PR campaigns and through TV and movies and other media methods.
Common sense says that psychiatry is BS. It is only the pretense of “science” coming from the mouths of pseudo-“doctors” claiming “special knowledge” that allows people to actually invalidate their common sense and believe this unscientific and intuitively offensive nonsense!
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Say “ADHD” and EVERYONE is off the hook! Except the poor child’s body…
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Yeah, but there’s not a lot of money in spiritual enlightenment!
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And if you disagree, it’s more proof of their “diagnosis!”
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I would also say that the training for “talk therapy” has deteriorated massively while classes on “diagnosing” with the DSM are hugely on the rise. I often wonder from talking to them whether today’s clinicians have ever even been introduced to the idea of subconscious motivation? They get trained that PTSD exists but to they get any kind of training on what to DO that might be helpful to a traumatized person (or what NOT to do?) Once one’s had “therapy” with a person who doesn’t know what they’re doing and makes things worse, the idea that “therapy” could work is canceled pretty much forever. Which leaves people with very few options!
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Only as long as the “data” in question supports the dominant narrative. Plenty of data is ignored when it is inconvenient or might cost profits!
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Actually, there are increasing numbers of shelters for men abused by their partners, both male and female. They are rare, but a growing phenomenon.
https://nypost.com/2017/10/29/these-shelters-help-male-victims-of-domestic-violence/
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Quite so. When the experimenters have no objective means to separate those “in” the group from those “not in” the group, the experiment is DOA. Which applies to pretty much all “mental health” studies, except perhaps those measuring adverse effects of the “treatments!”
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You are confusing an observable problem and a workable solution.
Of course, no one here denies that people live on the street and talk to themselves. Believe it or not, A LOT of those people are “taking their meds” and still doing that, or have tried the “psychiatric treatment” path and it has failed miserably for them. Did you realize that the likelihood of recovering from “schizophrenia” is now a LOT WORSE than it was in the 1950s, before the “drug era” began? Did you realize that the likelihood of recovering is MUCH HIGHER in countries like Nigeria, Columbia, and other “developing countries” where “medication” is used far less frequently? Were you aware of the fact that a lot of people having first episode psychosis don’t have another, but that the likelihood of spontaneous improvement has REDUCED since psychiatric drugs are in regular use? Have you learned yet that the average “seriously mentally ill” person dies an average of 20-25 years YOUNGER than the rest of the population, and that the drugs used to “treat” these “illnesses” are largely responsible for many of these early deaths?
The social myth is that there are magic drugs that make everyone all better, and if only the “homeless” and the “mentally ill” would follow their doctors’ instructions, they’d be “normal” people working jobs and going to college and raising families, just like on the ads on TV or the movies and TV shows where someone goes “off their meds” and crashes and burns, but as soon as they’re back “on their meds,” they’re totally fine again. The industries have worked hard to create this impression, but if you can put this myth aside for a moment and actually READ some of the stories presented below, you might start to realize that it’s not such a pretty picture.
Psych drugs do seem to be helpful to a certain percentage of the population without serious damage to their quality of life, and more power to them. But the idea that doctors have some great “treatments” that make MOST people “normal” again if only they do as they’re told is completely false. The bulk of “seriously mentally ill” people who are in “compliance” with their treatment plans are poor, unemployed (on disability), and living lives that most of us would consider extremely low in quality. Those who do better often do so despite their “treatment plans” and “providers” rather than because of them, or at least have little to no support for improving their life quality from those supposedly “treating” them besides the drugs they are prescribed. Considering the massive adverse effects most experience, ranging from involuntary movements to severely blunted emotions and motivation to loss of sexual function to enormous weight gain to diabetes and heart disease, it might seem that living on the streets is hardly any worse to some recipients. And that’s not even mentioning the tremendous loss of autonomy most experience, being constantly monitored and told what to do and threatened with incarceration, framed as “hospitalization,” if they step out of line or their “symptoms” increase.
It is very easy to judge if you’re not someone who has had these experiences yourself. Why don’t you suspend the judgment for a while and try reading some of the many stories here about what has happened to people here who “complied” with their “treatment plans” and ended up devastated? There’s a LOT more to the story than you seem to have heard to this point!
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The key question would be whether one could distinguish in some objective way between “biological” and “situational depression.” Of course, no one has come close to doing that, and they don’t even bother trying any longer. It’s just “let’s try these drugs out and see what happens.” No pretension in reality of any kind of scientific diagnostic process. But as long as the big money keeps coming in, no one has an incentive to look deeper.
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You are assuming that treatment plans mandated by “healthcare professionals” are going to be helpful. Read some of the stories below and you may begin to question that assumption. Saying something “must be dealt with one way or another” does not mean that the one way currently being used is the best approach.
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It’s hard to see why anyone needs to do a study to “prove” this. Shouldn’t it be the job of those claiming this “disorder” has validity to prove it does, rather than the other way around???
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So apparently, there are a lot of “professional” participants in the “system” who are not in their right minds!!!!
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Maybe just start with the person where they are at, and stop worrying about whether they “fit” the PTSD “diagnosis,” and instead start asking questions and getting to know them on a real level and finding out where they’re at and what they really need?
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They are only “curative” when someone can make a profit on them!
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Then there is the “placebo washout,” to remove placebo responders and make the drugs look better than they are.
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Picky, picky, picky!
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But many Deaf people in my observation also DON’T view themselves as disabled. In my experience, there is a wide range of ways people view their Deafness, and it would be wise for those not a part of that community not to speak for “them.”
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Where can you have come up with such statistics? As far as I know, there is no objective description or measurement of a “neurotypical” brain that is possible. So a “neurodivergent” brain, while I think can be a legitimate identity to choose, is not a scientifically observable phenomenon, and as a result, its frequency of occurrence is not something we can claim to know.
I personally find the term “neurotypical” to be to some extent demeaning, as it seems to imply that I have somehow gotten a “normal” brain and that therefore any struggles I may have are of less significance than the “neurodiverse” brain. I can tell you with absolute certainty there is nothing “typical” about how I have experienced life and I had plenty of struggles in school and elsewhere, even though my particular “brain” (if that is indeed the variable in question) allowed me to be quite successful in the educational environment and to scrape by socially, “it” has provided plenty of challenges in non-academic arenas. Of course, you could now decide (or I could) that I really am NOT neurotypical, that I’m “neurodiverse,” but again, that would be a decision of identity that I (or someone else) made, and not one that can be verified in any scientific manner.
I don’t believe there are “neurotypical” brains out there – my observation is that everyone’s brain is different and everyone has certain things in common, and our society is highly intolerant of certain personality characteristics or behavior, which leads to bigotry and discrimination against certain people who don’t BEHAVIORALLY fit what is expected, whether because of their brains or some other reason. Does neurology factor into that? No doubt. But until there is a means of drawing some kind of objective line between the “neurotypical” and the “neurodiverse,” I’m afraid these terms remain social constructs without any objective meanings. Like I said, everyone should feel free to identify themselves as they wish, but I’d appreciate you and others not choosing MY identity for me!
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The most optimistic I’ve ever heard is 30% EFFECTIVENESS, not 30% REMISSION. It’s bull if anyone tells you there’s a 50% remission rate.
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Quite so. It is never the fault of the practitioners – the client or the “disorder” is resisting! So how is success ever to be defined, if you can’t fail except as a result of something they have no control over!
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Yeah, you don’t want to start upsetting people by speaking the truth!!! Very rude of you! /s
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Posting as moderator: Just to be clear, the above is indicated to be sarcasm.
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There are most likely some in Turkey who know the truth. But it may be hard to find each other. Most countries are dominated by people who are “true believers” in psychiatry and tend to attack and humiliate those who don’t agree with them.
It may be that you are the one who will have to educate others about what you’ve learned. We are all in the minority!
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Exactly! Besides, he’s threatening their client base!
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Quite so.
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It would indeed be interesting!
My point is that having a goal over which you have no direct control is a setup for failure, in my experience. Empathy in particular is VERY difficult to teach, especially to an adult. Not saying it could not happen, but I’d be more likely to look at something more along the lines of not engaging when negative stuff is coming from her, drilling how to convey the necessary message most effectively, and how to set good boundaries when she becomes abusive. All things the person himself can control. I’ve seen way too many people spend way too much time trying to “get their viewpoint across” or “help him see how he’s hurting me,” etc., with absolutely no success and enormous frustration. I recommend setting goals that a person can accomplish, regardless of whether someone else chooses to “understand” or not!
Hope that makes some sense.
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That DOES make a lot of sense. My only caution is that “depression” is not caused by any one thing. But testing for THIS particular thing could save a LOT of trouble and suffering for a certain identifiable subset of the population!
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If the patients got along but the staff shunned you, you must have been doing something right!
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I agree with you completely. I’m not sure I didn’t know you agreed with me already!
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A goal of making one’s WIFE more compassionate is a pretty inappropriate therapy goal! You can’t make other people compassionate! That seems like his first problem!
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I believe the link goes both ways – psychological trauma is associated with increasing inflammation and immune response. Autoimmune diseases are more common with people who have been abused, in a dose-dependent manner, as I recall.
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The question is, how can anyone POSSIBLY determine where such a “line” lies, or if it even exists? And if we DON’T objectively define what it is, then we get arbitrary and subjective rules, leading to “diagnostic drift” toward whatever makes more money for the providers and less trouble for those in control of society’s institutions.
And why do we need to define such a line anyway? Why can’t we simply say that “those who suffer need and deserve support” and provide it without pretending there is something physiological going on? Now, if there IS something physical that is off, like low thyroid, anemia, sleep problems leading to depression or hyperactivity, or whatever, then THAT is what should be treated, not “depression” or “anxiety.”
I’d really be interested in knowing why you think such a line can be and/or needs to be drawn to be able to provide full support to those who are suffering?
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That sounds very intentional and very oppressive!
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