For Aeon, Samira Thomas writes that while resilience is attracting a lot of attention from psychology, patience in an underexplored and undervalued virtue in the face of suffering. âUnlike resilience, which implies returning to an original shape, patience suggests change and allows the possibility of transformation as a means of overcoming difficulties,â she writes. âIt is a simultaneous act of defiance and tenderness, a complex existence that gently breaks barriers.â