From Beam Consultancy: “I’ve made a lot of impulsive decisions in my life, some of them have taken me away from my long-term goals. Even at my most critical, self-eviscerating moments, I would struggle to define those times as a deliberate attempt to rip my life apart. When we look people in the face and tell them that their actions are a deliberate attempt to tear down anything good in their lives, we will almost certainly be re-enacting the part of somebody who has hurt them. ‘You asked for this.’ ‘You’ve got what you wanted.’ ‘It’s all your fault.’ We, those who are supposed to care, will be telling them that they are the authors of their misery and that this is what they wanted all along. That the whole mess is of their creation and of their desire. If we are replicating the words of somebody’s abuser, we’ve probably stopped providing care. We will never be struck off for saying people sabotage, but the reasoning behind such a statement is surely outside all of our codes of practice.”
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