In Transcultural Psychiatry’s most recent issue, “Toward an Anthropology of Loneliness,” cultural anthropologists, ethnographers, and global mental health researchers make the collective case for a more nuanced and situated understanding of ‘loneliness.’
In the opening article of the issue, Chikako Ozawa-de Silva and Michelle Parsons from the University of Emory argue that loneliness is not only a matter of individual psychology. Loneliness is intimately intertwined with our social, cultural, and relational life and upbringing.
The authors claim that there ought to be more work done to explore how loneliness is culturally shaped to push back against over-medicalization and pathologization of, what they have found to be, a fundamental part of being human.
“Our need to connect with others is the very thing that creates the potential for loneliness. For this reason, loneliness should not be pathologized as a disorder, but rather seen as a natural expression of what it means to be a social being, born into and existing within society,” they write.
“However, this does not mean that we should or can do nothing to address the spreading pandemic of loneliness, which is a real threat to human happiness and flourishing as any infectious disease.”
Loneliness has been linked to countless poor health outcomes in countries across the world. Not only is the experience of loneliness believed to increase the likelihood of ‘common mental disorders,’ but it is also considered to be one of the worst side effects of the COVID-19 pandemic, especially for young people. Even these considerations of loneliness miss many of the social and cultural nuances and causes of loneliness—a gap largely caused by a lack of non-medical research in non-Western contexts on the experience of loneliness.
The authors offer numerous cultural conceptions of loneliness to introduce the special issue suggesting that loneliness is understood in different cultures through different local idioms.
Ozawa-de Silva and Parsons differentiate between being or feeling alone and being lonely, later defining being or feeling lonely as an affective and subjective reality. While social isolation is a physical and social reality, it does not necessitate that the experience of loneliness ensues.
Loneliness is a state of perceived social isolation that derives from a desire to be connected with someone and/or a perceived lack of fulfillment with others. This experience is tempered by what the culture defines as ‘fulfilling’— making loneliness simultaneously more specific and broader than the diagnostic construct of depression.
“Loneliness should not be conflated with depression, although the two can certainly coexist.”
The authors then give a brief overview of the articles found in the issue, diligently pointing out how each warrants the claim that loneliness is culturally and politically situated and tied to our personal understanding of what it means to be connected. However, the authors are also apt to point out that loneliness is also frequently caused by prejudicial ostracization, exclusion, and structural violence toward marginalized groups.
Overall, each article in the new issue suggests that although there are differences in the experience of loneliness across societies and cultures, as expectations for fulfillment vary, loneliness is everywhere and inextricably tied to our expectations of social connectedness.
An anthropology of loneliness is necessary to inject nuance and meaning into discussions concerning mental health, ‘mental illness,’ and their relationship to loneliness.
Ozawa-de Silva, C., & Parsons, M. (2020). Toward an anthropology of loneliness. Transcultural Psychiatry, 57(5), 613–622. https://doi.org/10.1177/1363461520961627
I’ve been lonely my entire life. After desperately drinking myself to the brink of death a thousand times in my 20’s, now I cuddle up with cough syrup to make the constant siren of pain from loneliness go away. Down goes another bottle of robocough. ahhhhh
“…While social isolation is a physical and social reality, it does not necessitate that the experience of loneliness ensues….” This is true.
I notice a lot of focus on loneliness these days and it’s a bit like when famous people claim to be BiPolar. The famous people are lovable for having it but an ordinary person might be inferior.
“Loneliness is intimately intertwined with our social, cultural, and relational life and upbringing.” A bit obvious really.
In the UK a few years ago, “Lonliness,” became a government agenda. The government ignored how there policies contributed to it.
So our governments are forcing us to “social distance,” wear masks, stay home, etc. All of which could make people lonely. And now “Loneliness is Often Over-Medicalized,” by our “mental health professionals.” We are literally living in an insane society.
A little reminder of some wisdom, “It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” And it is those medicalizing loneliness, and propagandizing us to “social distance,” et al, who are making our society profoundly sick.
What do you suppose happens if I go to a shrink and tell him I’m lonely? And that I don’t feel up to going to work?
Simple. I have a disorder. There are pills.
“cultural anthropologists, ethnographers, and global mental health researchers make the collective case for a more nuanced and situated understanding of ‘loneliness.”
Well these people never are in a position to make change. After all, they get paid for research and language. And for holding up narratives.